fix: harden physical-plan activation and frame lineage

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Summary

Follow-up correctness fixes for #585:

• propagate retired-generation delivery failures so failed cutovers are never reported APPLIED
• preserve committed CMS width/depth in the Rust runtime projection
• align aggregator-wide checkpoint resets with per-lineage frame sequencing
• scope frame lineage by plan ID/version in Go and Rust
• persist the last APPLIED OpAMP generation atomically across Collector restarts
• allow one QueryPlan query ID to own multiple materializations
• add regression coverage for each boundary

Validation

• go test ./... in asap-precompute-go
• go test ./... in opentelemetry-collector-contrib-patch/processor/asapedgeprocessor
• cargo test --manifest-path asap-precompute-rs/Cargo.toml
• git diff --check

The existing one-executor-per-metric limitation remains explicitly fail-closed and requires a separate runtime registry redesign.