anyone who's friends with @brutherfordceo ,

its very obvious that they have attachment issues yet aren't doing anything to yk .. actually stop them, or hide them (that's not rlly their fault to) but they made other people uncomfortable with their clinginess, including me! They were trying to move our friendship way too fast, and also did stuff without me asking like matching skins, please just take my word for it as i don't have picture proof but if u have seen me in the utdr area, you probably have seen me in the following of skins that they made to match with me with no proper reason or context.

(DO NOT COPY THESE, I WILL BLOCK YOU IF U DO BTW.)

They also loved to hide behind me whenever it would rather me a random person, or my bff and even with my irl sibling, which was weird, and i haven't been playing too long since my return on this game but nobody has done that, and they did it alot, i get their intentions were clear but someone informed me that they've been known for behavior like that and alot of people in this area has hidden Kris from what kris told me when we first met eachother.. so i was careful on the way i interacted but the way they reacted with mainly with me felt wrong & weird. Kris has been known to do this to others and if you'r friends with them please be careful!

Was it wrong of me to not get boundaries out?: Yea, i could've done that but i felt very scared i was never the best for talks like that so i blocked them instead, i know they have good intentions but how they didn't try to fix their attachment issues and tried to get very close with me for the first week we known each other just made me scared. But i don't even owe it up to them, its not my responsibility to have to deal with someone else's incompetence, although this might sound rude to say it is completely true and nobody should if its their own problem, you don't need to fix it because they need to fix it themselves.

DONT go out of your way to harass them in any way, i just don't want to be friends with anyone whos friends with them. / spreading awareness for people who just pass by.

• Another reason now, because someone decided to go out of there way and make it worse for both parties

• My Replies (fyi i do use the r slur which i can say/reclaim.)

This also means they get people to stalk others accounts, so.. like this doesn't rlly look good!!

They also claim that blocking them their problems (which they can't "fix") is immature, just because goldenflower didn't tell you doesn't mean you have to be told things as you have to realize you are, or your making it worse for the person and yourself btw, if you have attachment issues over people and you don't fix them, you're also pretty much asking to be blocked, you eventually have to control it, and you making friends is worse (You mostly shouldn't normally make friends in the state you'r in anyways so you can recover from the attachment issues you have.), the fact you had to add this to your strawpage looks like you just dont want your reputation to crumble over somebody saying their own side of pov and how you were to them. Even when the person doesn't want to again you have to pretty much realize? If you can't realize that then honestly that's your problem for not? Yeah some people can't catch cues like that but you kinda have to read the room to realize why so much people hid/blocked you. As long as you finally realize what you did wrong, maybe you should try to change instead of not fixing it because i wouldn't have to add this if you even tried to fix your attachment issues. The Fact you had to bring a friend to not even ask why properly i blocked you is crazy, and when people are scared to tell things and so they block you it's suddenly immature? I guess/sarc.

They also made a post directed to me, i didnt treat them like a dog and i have no idea why it’s their first thought. How is anything gonna form in a week??? People dont owe dealing with ur unhealed attachment issues just bc ur friends btw… Also i guess i’m not allowed to have boundaries anymore because its weird to block people… like ok i guess!!

so please don't go out of ur way to message ur friend telling them how i blocked you kris, if you're even like reading this or if their friend is, you handled this poorly. <3

My Intentions aren't supposed to be like "OMG DONT BE FRIENDS WITH THIS PERSON OMG" but they need to help themselves and if you are friends with this person, please be careful! They need to help themselves instead of using their issues to make others uncomfy.