Move away from bpf2go

### What problem does this solve?

bpf2go stifles us in terms of repo structure, the project's bpf layer is growing and is becoming more intermingled in terms of functions and variables used. at one point it would be beneficial to have a bespoke solution

### Proposed change

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### Alternatives considered

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### Additional context

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