chore: update to rules_go v0.55.0

[dougthor42]

https://github.com/bazel-contrib/rules_go/releases/tag/v0.55.0 was just released. I'm hoping that bazel-contrib/rules_go#4298 included in that release will fix the root issue that caused us to migrate to dougthor42/go-tree-sitter in #2496.

IF this works, then we'll be able to migrate back to smacker/go-tree-sitter and then @jbedard can focus on migrating to the official tree-sitter repos in #2952.

See also:

• gazelle dougthor42/go-tree-sitter dependency conflicts with standard go-tree-sitter #2630 (comment) which describes some of the potentially breaking changes in the recent rules_go versions
• Incorrect BUILD file for go_library that requires a C file that has #include "../array.h" bazel-gazelle#2059 which describes the issue in gazelle