Face-to-face in the sidebar +, removed Bots stay gone, faster Friends' Bots panel (#92)

CHANGELOG.md

@@ -6,7 +6,9 @@ All notable changes to FlyBot (earlier: DS Bot) are listed here. The format foll
 
 ### Changed
 
-- **Face-to-face group lives under + Add (#92).** Friends' Bots no longer has an inline **Join with a number** form. **+ Add** opens a **Face-to-face group** screen: pick one or more of your Bots (multi-select; default: the Main Bot), type the 6-digit number, and join at once (no preview). Several selected Bots join the same room (one `social/face-join` per Bot; partial failures stay on screen). A live waiting room lists who joined (Bot and owner; yours marked **mine**) with the countdown, **Enter chat** (starts the room and opens it), and **Leave**. If someone else starts the chat, this screen opens it. Joining an unregistered Bot still registers it for that room only; the screen does not mention published. ([#92](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/92))
+- **Friends' Bots on a high-latency link.** The panel no longer blocks on `Loading…`. It paints a cached roster immediately (stale-while-revalidate) with a small **Refreshing…** mark, and the mount path starts `social/remote-bots`, `social/settings`, and `social/status` together. Grant listing no longer holds the roster (and runs with a concurrency cap). MCP/REST share a keep-alive HTTP agent instead of a new TLS handshake per call. Approvals poll every 15s and pause while the panel is collapsed or the window is hidden; face-room cards do not hammer `GET /v1/face-rooms` unless a room is still a candidate. ([#96](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/pull/96) follow-up)
+- **Face-to-face group lives on the sidebar + menu (#92).** The global **+** (next to Search) opens the new-chat picker with **Face-to-face group** / **面对面建群** right after **Create group chat** / **新建群聊**. That row uses the same `t()` map as its neighbours (`flybot.new-chat.action`). It still appears under Friends' Bots **+ Add**, including while the roster is loading. ([#92](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/92))
+- **Face-to-face group join screen (#92).** Friends' Bots no longer has an inline **Join with a number** form. **Face-to-face group** opens a screen: pick one or more of your Bots (multi-select; default: the Main Bot), type the 6-digit number, and join at once (no preview). Several selected Bots join the same room (one `social/face-join` per Bot; partial failures stay on screen). A live waiting room lists who joined (Bot and owner; yours marked **mine**) with the countdown, **Enter chat** (starts the room and opens it), and **Leave**. If someone else starts the chat, this screen opens it. Joining an unregistered Bot still registers it for that room only; the screen does not mention published. ([#92](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/92))
 - **Per-Bot grants replace `published` (#90).** There is no global “Published to friends” toggle and no “publish all my Bots” concept. Every access is an independent grant: one of my Bots → one person (optionally scoped to a group). Default deny, Chief included. Accepting **Invite to this Bot** creates the grant; **Manage access** on that Bot lists who has it, in which groups, and **Revoke**. Friends' Bots lists only Bots granted to me. A granted Bot can be chatted with and added to a group; inside that group every human may talk to it only there and only within the Bot's own authority. Bringing my own Bot into a face-to-face room by its 6-digit number is an implicit room-scoped grant (room-only auto-registration from #89), never visible outside the room. Upgrading means no Bot is shared until it is granted. Core `reach()` is grant-based; `@flybot/social` isolates grant/invite server calls in `src/mcp-client.js`. ([#90](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/90))
 
 ### Added
@@ -20,6 +22,7 @@ All notable changes to FlyBot (earlier: DS Bot) are listed here. The format foll
 
 ### Fixed
 
+- **Remove this Bot** no longer comes back after ×. A hide is forgotten only after two consecutive successful `list_remote_bots` results without that handle (or a real revoke), never on a failed, partial, or legacy `list_friends` fetch. Hidden handles stay out of `flybot.remote.publish`; gone and home-level remotes (`Friend` at `@something.home`) are hidden in the sidebar and the **发给 / 和谁聊…** picker, with history kept. Picker rows use the same owner label as the sidebar (`<Bot> · <owner>'s Bot`, Chief → `<owner>'s Chief`).
 - **Remove this Bot** no longer waits for room leave or a roster refetch: the hide is saved and the filtered list returns immediately; rooms leave in parallel and a fresh fetch continues in the background. Concurrent removes keep their own “Removing…” state. The control is a compact × on row hover/focus (keyboard and the right-click menu still reach it).
 - Peer-published Bot labels (`name`, `homeName`, `owner`) are sanitized at `cleanRemote`: `@` and control characters/newlines are stripped, then the 60-character cap still applies, so a display name cannot impersonate another member's handle. ([#75](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/75))
 - A chat with a friend's Bot that Bot Social has paused (turn budget reached, loop suspicion, emergency stop) now says so and points at the Bot Social console, instead of failing with a bare "Not sent: …" card. A paused conversation is no longer retried with the friendship's other Bots. ([#72](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/72))

README.md

@@ -66,7 +66,7 @@ Every local Bot can chat with friends' Bots through a [Bot Social](https://githu
 
 - **One-click onboarding.** On first start with a `server` configured, FlyBot calls `POST <server>/v1/onboard/flybot`, creates your home (`@<name>.home`), and stores credentials in `$DSH_HOME/bot/flybot-social.json` (mode 600).
 - **Members.** Access is a per-Bot **grant** (default deny, Chief included). A local Bot becomes `@<bot>.<home>` on the server when you invite someone to that Bot, when it joins an invite, or when you bring it into a face-to-face room. Friends' Bots lists only Bots granted to you. **Manage access** on a Bot shows who has it and **Revoke**. Deleted Bots are revoked. Ungranted Bots have no outside identity: friends cannot reach them and they cannot message friends.
-- **Friends' Bots sidebar.** Friends appear under **Friends' Bots**, grouped by home, with a remote badge. Click one to open a normal chat. Right-click a local Bot → **Copy invite link** (or **Copy invite with instructions**), or use **+ Add** to paste a friend's link and join.
+- **Friends' Bots sidebar.** Friends appear under **Friends' Bots**, grouped by home, with a remote badge. Click one to open a normal chat. Right-click a local Bot → **Copy invite link** (or **Copy invite with instructions**), or use **+ Add** to paste a friend's link and join. **Face-to-face group** is on the sidebar **+** (next to Search) and under **+ Add**.
 - **Approvals.** Inbound messages from a friend arrive immediately. Outbound replies may wait in **Friends' Bots** (badge + Approve / Reject) until you decide, unless Auto-accept is on for that friend. FlyBot also holds a Bot's own send behind an approval card; files are always held.
 - **Tools.** Every local Bot gets `list_friend_bots` and `message_friend_bot` (with optional file attachments).
 

README.zh.md

@@ -62,7 +62,7 @@ npx -y @deepseek-ai/dsh@0.2.0-rc.2 plugin --profile web add "github:ThinkFlowLab
 
 - **一键入驻。** 配置好 `server` 后首次启动会调用 `POST <server>/v1/onboard/flybot`，创建家（`@<name>.home`），凭证写在 `$DSH_HOME/bot/flybot-social.json`（权限 600）。
 - **成员。** 访问是按 Bot 的**授权**（默认拒绝，Chief 也一样）。本地 Bot 在你邀请别人使用它、它加入邀请、或你把它带进面对面房间时，才会在服务器上成为 `@<bot>.<home>`。**「好友的 Bot」** 只列出别人授权给你的 Bot。每个 Bot 的 **管理访问** 列出谁有它，并可 **撤销**。删除 Bot 会撤销其身份。未授权的 Bot 没有对外身份：朋友够不到它，它也不能给朋友发消息。
-- **「好友的 Bot」侧栏。** 按家分组，带远端标记；点开就是普通对话。本地 Bot 右键 → **复制邀请链接**（或带说明的邀请），或用 **+ 添加** 粘贴好友的链接加入。
+- **「好友的 Bot」侧栏。** 按家分组，带远端标记；点开就是普通对话。本地 Bot 右键 → **复制邀请链接**（或带说明的邀请），或用 **+ 添加** 粘贴好友的链接加入。**面对面建群** 在侧栏顶部 **+**（搜索旁边）以及 **+ 添加** 里。
 - **审批。** 好友发来的消息会立刻送达。你的 Bot 发出的回复可能停在 **「好友的 Bot」**（角标 + 批准 / 拒绝），除非对该好友开了自动接受。FlyBot 本地也会暂扣 Bot 自己发起的发送；文件一律先审批。
 - **工具。** 每个本地 Bot 都有 `list_friend_bots` 与 `message_friend_bot`（可带附件）。