Fix for missing small icon infinite recursion

[cgutman]

Description

This PR fixes a few issues with the icon caching:

• Not properly managing the lifetime of the path string in the cache entries
• The cached small icon being NULL on some machines
• Infinite recursion if icon load fails for any persistent reason

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Issues Fixed or Closed

Type of Change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Dependency update (updates to dependencies)
• Documentation update (changes to documentation)
• Repository update (changes to repository files, e.g. .github/...)

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• I have performed a self-review of my own code
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• I have added or updated the in code docstring/documentation-blocks for new or existing methods/components

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