diff --git a/changelog.d/420-friend-line-unread.fixed.md b/changelog.d/420-friend-line-unread.fixed.md
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..cda49b7db
--- /dev/null
+++ b/changelog.d/420-friend-line-unread.fixed.md
@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+A friend's line in one of your Bots' own chats is no longer easy to miss: the Bot's row (and the Main Bot's tile) gets the unread dot until you open that chat, also when the line came while FlyBot was closed, and a sender's first line opens with a quiet note such as `SelfB1238 is talking to Chief through Bot Social`. Add friend now also lists friendships and requests made through a per-Bot invite ([#420](https://github.com/ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot/issues/420)).
diff --git a/core/client.js b/core/client.js
index 792f9f50b..dfe0eb2cc 100644
--- a/core/client.js
+++ b/core/client.js
@@ -593,6 +593,8 @@ var ZH = {
   "Reply from": "收到回复：",
   "Message from": "收到消息：",
   "via {name}": "经由 {name}",
+  "{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social": "{name} 正通过 Bot Social 和 {bot} 对话",
+  "your Bot": "你的 Bot",
   "Stopped by": "叫停者：",
   "{count} messages with": "{count} 条消息，来自",
   "Routine started": "例行任务开始",
@@ -3056,9 +3058,10 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
 .bt-round:active{transform:scale(.94)}
 .bt-list{display:flex;flex-direction:column;gap:3px;overflow-y:auto;min-height:0;flex:1 1 auto}
 .bt-tile-wrap{display:flex;justify-content:center;padding:20px 0 15px}
-.bt-tile{display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
+.bt-tile{position:relative;display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
 .bt-tile:hover{background:var(--bt-hover)}
 .bt-tile[aria-current=page]{background:var(--bt-active)}
+.bt-tile-unread{position:absolute;top:8px;right:12px}
 .bt-tile-name{font-size:13px;line-height:18px;font-weight:400;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap}
 .bt-chip{font-size:11px;line-height:16px;padding:1px 4px;border-radius:4px;background:var(--bt-hover);border:1px solid var(--bt-line);color:var(--bt-ink-2);white-space:nowrap;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis}
 .bt-row{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:8px;min-height:54px;padding:8px;border:0;border-radius:10px;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);text-align:left;cursor:pointer;width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
@@ -5244,6 +5247,12 @@ function RemoteMessage({ source, text, roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey, useUi
     files.length ? (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteFiles, { files, plugin: member?.plugin ?? "social", botId: roster.byId[sessionId]?.id ?? sessionId }) : null
   );
 }
+function FirstContact({ source, roster, sessionId }) {
+  const person = typeof source.remote.typedBy === "string" ? source.remote.typedBy : "";
+  const who = person || remoteSpeaker(source, roster).name;
+  const bot = roster.byId[sessionId]?.name ?? t("your Bot");
+  return (0, import_react7.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-event", "data-first-contact": source.remote.handle }, (0, import_react7.createElement)("span", null, t("{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social", { name: who, bot })));
+}
 function GlobeMark() {
   return (0, import_react7.createElement)(
     "svg",
@@ -5433,7 +5442,8 @@ function TriggerCell({ node, sessionId, useRoster, useSessions, useTurnClock, us
   function triggerBody() {
     if (source.form === "remote-chat") return null;
     if (source.remote?.handle) {
-      return (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi });
+      const message = (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi });
+      return source.remote.firstContact === true ? (0, import_react7.createElement)(import_react7.Fragment, null, (0, import_react7.createElement)(FirstContact, { source, roster, sessionId }), message) : message;
     }
     if (source.kind === "bot") {
       if (source.handoff === true) return roster.roomsById[sessionId] ? null : (0, import_react7.createElement)(EarlierParts, { sessionId, roster, actions });
@@ -6140,6 +6150,8 @@ function BotRow({ bot, roster, actions, useSessions, useSessionStatus, useSessio
       },
       (0, import_react9.createElement)(BotAvatar, { bot, size: 60, state, main: true }),
       (0, import_react9.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-tile-name" }, shown),
+      // The Main Bot's tile gets the same unread dot as a row (#420); a wait shows on its avatar.
+      unread && !waiting && !active ? (0, import_react9.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-unread bt-tile-unread", "aria-hidden": true }) : null,
       bot.role ? (0, import_react9.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-chip" }, bot.role) : null
     ));
   }
@@ -13075,6 +13087,7 @@ var STORAGE = {
   unread: "ds-bot:unread",
   reactions: "ds-bot:reactions",
   seen: "ds-bot:seen",
+  friendLines: "ds-bot:friend-lines",
   prefs: "ds-bot:prefs",
   surface: "ds-bot:surface",
   agentSessions: "ds-bot:agent-sessions",
@@ -15340,6 +15353,22 @@ function serveBrowserReads({ browsers, post, clientId = globalThis.crypto.random
   };
 }
 
+// src/client/friend-lines.js
+function friendLineNews(bots, known, isOpen, selfId) {
+  const next = { ...known };
+  const unread = [];
+  for (const bot of bots ?? []) {
+    const at = bot?.friendLineAt;
+    if (bot?.remote || !Number.isFinite(at)) continue;
+    if (selfId && bot.ownerId && bot.ownerId !== selfId) continue;
+    const shown = known?.[bot.id];
+    if (shown === at) continue;
+    next[bot.id] = at;
+    if (known && (shown === void 0 || at > shown) && !isOpen(bot)) unread.push(bot.id);
+  }
+  return { known: next, unread };
+}
+
 // src/client/surface.js
 function groupsFor({ mode, plain = false }) {
   return { shell: mode === "bot", conversation: mode === "bot" && !plain };
@@ -15625,6 +15654,12 @@ function apply(ctx) {
   } catch {
     seenAt = {};
   }
+  let friendLines = null;
+  try {
+    friendLines = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem(STORAGE.friendLines) ?? "null");
+  } catch {
+    friendLines = null;
+  }
   const ui2 = createSource({ details: null, view: "details", renaming: false, tab: null, newChat: null, exchange: null, menu: null, voice: null, palette: null, quote: null, settings: null, remoteBotSettings: null, memory: null, toast: null, signIn: null, renameAgent: null, unread: savedUnread, reactions: savedReactions, visits: {} });
   const surface = createSource({ mode: readMode(), plain: false });
   let agentSessionCache = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
@@ -15695,6 +15730,18 @@ function apply(ctx) {
     }
     return { ...state, unread };
   });
+  const noteFriendLines = (value) => {
+    const visited = new Set(Object.keys(ui2.getSnapshot().visits ?? {}).map(seenKey));
+    const news = friendLineNews(value.bots, friendLines, (bot) => visited.has(bot.id), value.self?.memberId);
+    if (JSON.stringify(news.known) !== JSON.stringify(friendLines ?? null)) {
+      friendLines = news.known;
+      try {
+        localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.friendLines, JSON.stringify(friendLines));
+      } catch {
+      }
+    }
+    for (const id of news.unread) setUnread(id, true);
+  };
   const refreshed = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
   let pulls = 0;
   let applied = 0;
@@ -15727,6 +15774,7 @@ function apply(ctx) {
     if (value.unchanged || value.revision === current.revision && value.modelsKey === current.modelsKey) return;
     if (Object.keys(seenAt).length === 0) leaveVisits([...value.bots, ...value.rooms].map((entry) => entry.id));
     roster.set(indexRoster(value));
+    noteFriendLines(value);
     try {
       const ids = (value.agents ?? []).flatMap((agent) => agent.sessions ?? []);
       localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.agentSessions, JSON.stringify(ids));
diff --git a/core/src/client/cells.js b/core/src/client/cells.js
index 4fc0aa114..c304fd44e 100644
--- a/core/src/client/cells.js
+++ b/core/src/client/cells.js
@@ -281,6 +281,15 @@ export function RemoteMessage({ source, text, roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey
     files.length ? h(RemoteFiles, { files, plugin: member?.plugin ?? 'social', botId: roster.byId[sessionId]?.id ?? sessionId }) : null)
 }
 
+// A sender's first line in a Bot's own chat (#420): one quiet line says who is talking to the Bot
+// and how, so the line is not read as one of my own messages.
+export function FirstContact({ source, roster, sessionId }) {
+  const person = typeof source.remote.typedBy === 'string' ? source.remote.typedBy : ''
+  const who = person || remoteSpeaker(source, roster).name
+  const bot = roster.byId[sessionId]?.name ?? t('your Bot')
+  return h('div', { className: 'bt-event', 'data-first-contact': source.remote.handle }, h('span', null, t('{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social', { name: who, bot })))
+}
+
 function GlobeMark() {
   return h('svg', { width: 10, height: 10, viewBox: '0 0 24 24', fill: 'none', stroke: 'currentColor', strokeWidth: 2, strokeLinecap: 'round', 'aria-hidden': true },
     h('circle', { cx: 12, cy: 12, r: 9 }), h('path', { d: 'M3 12h18M12 3a14 14 0 0 1 0 18M12 3a14 14 0 0 0 0 18' }))
@@ -468,7 +477,8 @@ export function TriggerCell({ node, sessionId, useRoster, useSessions, useTurnCl
     // A friend's message in its remote chat: the reply below shows it (remote-chat.js).
     if (source.form === 'remote-chat') return null
     if (source.remote?.handle) {
-      return h(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi })
+      const message = h(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi })
+      return source.remote.firstContact === true ? h(Fragment, null, h(FirstContact, { source, roster, sessionId }), message) : message
     }
     if (source.kind === 'bot') {
       // A part opens with its handoff package, so the earlier parts go right above it.
diff --git a/core/src/client/friend-lines.js b/core/src/client/friend-lines.js
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..f69d9a3df
--- /dev/null
+++ b/core/src/client/friend-lines.js
@@ -0,0 +1,24 @@
+// A friend's line in one of my Bots' own chats (#420): it lands among my own messages, so DSH's
+// "finished while you were away" mark is not enough (that chat may be the one on screen, or the
+// line came while this window was closed). The host stamps the Bot with `friendLineAt`; this
+// window keeps the last stamp it has shown per Bot and marks a Bot unread when a newer one
+// arrives while its chat is not open. Stamps are compared with stamps, never with this
+// browser's clock. A browser with no record yet takes everything already there as shown.
+
+// `known`: the saved record, or null when this browser has none yet. `isOpen(bot)`: its chat is on
+// screen now. Returns the record to save and the Bots to mark unread.
+export function friendLineNews(bots, known, isOpen, selfId) {
+  const next = { ...known }
+  const unread = []
+  for (const bot of bots ?? []) {
+    const at = bot?.friendLineAt
+    if (bot?.remote || !Number.isFinite(at)) continue
+    // Another member's Bot shared in a group is theirs to read.
+    if (selfId && bot.ownerId && bot.ownerId !== selfId) continue
+    const shown = known?.[bot.id]
+    if (shown === at) continue
+    next[bot.id] = at
+    if (known && (shown === undefined || at > shown) && !isOpen(bot)) unread.push(bot.id)
+  }
+  return { known: next, unread }
+}
diff --git a/core/src/client/i18n.js b/core/src/client/i18n.js
index d02b644d1..7d7695130 100644
--- a/core/src/client/i18n.js
+++ b/core/src/client/i18n.js
@@ -537,6 +537,8 @@ const ZH = {
   'Reply from': '收到回复：',
   'Message from': '收到消息：',
   'via {name}': '经由 {name}',
+  '{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social': '{name} 正通过 Bot Social 和 {bot} 对话',
+  'your Bot': '你的 Bot',
   'Stopped by': '叫停者：',
   '{count} messages with': '{count} 条消息，来自',
   'Routine started': '例行任务开始',
diff --git a/core/src/client/index.js b/core/src/client/index.js
index aa1becba3..c942a5006 100644
--- a/core/src/client/index.js
+++ b/core/src/client/index.js
@@ -29,6 +29,7 @@ import { FOLDER_CSS } from './folder-menu.js'
 import { USAGE_CSS } from './usage-page.js'
 import { SCHEDULE_CSS } from './schedules.js'
 import { STORAGE, migrateStorage } from './storage.js'
+import { friendLineNews } from './friend-lines.js'
 import { groupsFor, readMode, surfaceGroups, writeMode } from './surface.js'
 import { installLocale, language } from './i18n.js'
 import { noteClientError, noteNavigation, quietly } from './diagnostics.js'
@@ -64,6 +65,9 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
   const SEEN_KEY = STORAGE.seen
   let seenAt = {}
   try { seenAt = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem(SEEN_KEY) ?? '{}') ?? {} } catch { seenAt = {} }
+  // Per Bot, the last friend's-line stamp this browser has shown (friend-lines.js); null: no record yet.
+  let friendLines = null
+  try { friendLines = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem(STORAGE.friendLines) ?? 'null') } catch { friendLines = null }
   // `details` is the panel's subject (a Session id); `view` picks details or the
   // subject Bot's browser inside it.
   const ui = createSource({ details: null, view: 'details', renaming: false, tab: null, newChat: null, exchange: null, menu: null, voice: null, palette: null, quote: null, settings: null, remoteBotSettings: null, memory: null, toast: null, signIn: null, renameAgent: null, unread: savedUnread, reactions: savedReactions, visits: {} })
@@ -139,6 +143,17 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
     try { localStorage.setItem(UNREAD_KEY, JSON.stringify(unread)) } catch { /* storage unavailable */ }
     return { ...state, unread }
   })
+  // A friend's line in a Bot's chat that is not on screen marks the Bot unread, like Mark as Unread,
+  // and opening the chat clears it (#420).
+  const noteFriendLines = (value) => {
+    const visited = new Set(Object.keys(ui.getSnapshot().visits ?? {}).map(seenKey))
+    const news = friendLineNews(value.bots, friendLines, bot => visited.has(bot.id), value.self?.memberId)
+    if (JSON.stringify(news.known) !== JSON.stringify(friendLines ?? null)) {
+      friendLines = news.known
+      try { localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.friendLines, JSON.stringify(friendLines)) } catch { /* storage unavailable */ }
+    }
+    for (const id of news.unread) setUnread(id, true)
+  }
   const refreshed = new Set()
   // Pulls can overlap (the poll and a navigation); an older answer never wins.
   let pulls = 0
@@ -166,6 +181,7 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
     // On a browser with no visit record yet, everything already there counts as seen.
     if (Object.keys(seenAt).length === 0) leaveVisits([...value.bots, ...value.rooms].map(entry => entry.id))
     roster.set(indexRoster(value))
+    noteFriendLines(value)
     try {
       const ids = (value.agents ?? []).flatMap(agent => agent.sessions ?? [])
       localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.agentSessions, JSON.stringify(ids))
diff --git a/core/src/client/sidebar.js b/core/src/client/sidebar.js
index 0f650d205..f27a51ced 100644
--- a/core/src/client/sidebar.js
+++ b/core/src/client/sidebar.js
@@ -80,6 +80,8 @@ function BotRow({ bot, roster, actions, useSessions, useSessionStatus, useSessio
     },
     h(BotAvatar, { bot, size: 60, state, main: true }),
     h('span', { className: 'bt-tile-name' }, shown),
+    // The Main Bot's tile gets the same unread dot as a row (#420); a wait shows on its avatar.
+    unread && !waiting && !active ? h('span', { className: 'bt-unread bt-tile-unread', 'aria-hidden': true }) : null,
     bot.role ? h('span', { className: 'bt-chip' }, bot.role) : null))
   }
   const unreadMark = wide && waiting && !active ? h('span', { className: 'bt-unread bt-unread-wait', 'aria-hidden': true })
diff --git a/core/src/client/storage.js b/core/src/client/storage.js
index f74ffcb38..860395c11 100644
--- a/core/src/client/storage.js
+++ b/core/src/client/storage.js
@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ export const STORAGE = {
   unread: 'ds-bot:unread',
   reactions: 'ds-bot:reactions',
   seen: 'ds-bot:seen',
+  friendLines: 'ds-bot:friend-lines',
   prefs: 'ds-bot:prefs',
   surface: 'ds-bot:surface',
   agentSessions: 'ds-bot:agent-sessions',
diff --git a/core/src/client/styles.js b/core/src/client/styles.js
index e0c9e8768..59ccc7805 100644
--- a/core/src/client/styles.js
+++ b/core/src/client/styles.js
@@ -137,9 +137,10 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
 .bt-round:active{transform:scale(.94)}
 .bt-list{display:flex;flex-direction:column;gap:3px;overflow-y:auto;min-height:0;flex:1 1 auto}
 .bt-tile-wrap{display:flex;justify-content:center;padding:20px 0 15px}
-.bt-tile{display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
+.bt-tile{position:relative;display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
 .bt-tile:hover{background:var(--bt-hover)}
 .bt-tile[aria-current=page]{background:var(--bt-active)}
+.bt-tile-unread{position:absolute;top:8px;right:12px}
 .bt-tile-name{font-size:13px;line-height:18px;font-weight:400;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap}
 .bt-chip{font-size:11px;line-height:16px;padding:1px 4px;border-radius:4px;background:var(--bt-hover);border:1px solid var(--bt-line);color:var(--bt-ink-2);white-space:nowrap;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis}
 .bt-row{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:8px;min-height:54px;padding:8px;border:0;border-radius:10px;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);text-align:left;cursor:pointer;width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
diff --git a/core/src/host/delivery.js b/core/src/host/delivery.js
index b45f4e5f2..e5672f2d0 100644
--- a/core/src/host/delivery.js
+++ b/core/src/host/delivery.js
@@ -96,6 +96,26 @@ export function install(rt) {
     return said === OWNER || said === SCHEDULED ? OWNER : OTHER
   }
 
+  // A friend's line in a Bot's own chat (#420): `friendLineAt` on the Bot tells every window that a
+  // line it has not shown yet arrived (its row turns unread), and the senders seen so far, kept apart
+  // from the roster, tell the first line from a sender. A group line is the group's, not the Bot's.
+  const CONTACTS_KEPT = 200
+  const noteFriendLine = (to, sessionId, roomId, handle) => {
+    if (to === undefined || roomId || (sessionId !== undefined && sessionId !== rt.chatOf(to.id))) return false
+    const key = String(handle)
+    const contacts = (state.remoteContacts ??= {})[to.id] ??= {}
+    const first = contacts[key] === undefined
+    const now = Date.now()
+    if (first) {
+      contacts[key] = now
+      const keys = Object.keys(contacts)
+      if (keys.length > CONTACTS_KEPT) for (const old of keys.slice(0, keys.length - CONTACTS_KEPT)) delete contacts[old]
+    }
+    to.friendLineAt = now
+    void rt.save().catch(() => {})
+    return first
+  }
+
   // Roles recorded as team exchanges.
   const EXCHANGE_ROLES = new Set(['request', 'reply', 'stopped'])
 
@@ -116,6 +136,7 @@ export function install(rt) {
     const fromName = from?.name ?? (givenName === undefined ? 'You' : untrusted ? cleanName(givenName) : givenName)
     const room = rt.roomOf(roomId)
     const origin = originOf({ from, to, fromId, remote, given: givenOrigin })
+    const firstContact = remote?.handle && !deferred && !resumed && !retried && !resent ? noteFriendLine(to, sessionId, roomId, remote.handle) : false
     // Session events reject `undefined` members, so optional fields are omitted instead.
     const source = {
       kind: SOURCE_KIND,
@@ -137,7 +158,8 @@ export function install(rt) {
       ...(fromRoomId ? { senderRoomId: fromRoomId } : {}),
       // A remote member's message (FlyBot): the chat draws it as that member's bubble.
       // `typedBy`: the plugin has the server's attestation that this friend typed the line themselves.
-      ...(remote?.handle ? { remote: { handle: String(remote.handle), ...(remote.home ? { home: String(remote.home) } : {}), ...(remote.typedBy ? { typedBy: cleanName(remote.typedBy) } : {}) } } : {}),
+      // `firstContact`: this sender's first line in the Bot's own chat; the chat names who is talking (#420).
+      ...(remote?.handle ? { remote: { handle: String(remote.handle), ...(remote.home ? { home: String(remote.home) } : {}), ...(remote.typedBy ? { typedBy: cleanName(remote.typedBy) } : {}), ...(firstContact ? { firstContact: true } : {}) } } : {}),
       // A remote member's files, as references the chat shows as chips (fetched on demand).
       ...(remote?.handle && Array.isArray(attachments) && attachments.length ? { attachments: attachments.map(file => ({ id: String(file.id ?? ''), name: String(file.name), size: Number(file.size), mime: String(file.mime ?? '') })) } : {}),
     }
diff --git a/core/src/host/roster.js b/core/src/host/roster.js
index 0d92db0bf..082292ad3 100644
--- a/core/src/host/roster.js
+++ b/core/src/host/roster.js
@@ -522,6 +522,7 @@ export function install(rt) {
     // Questions and exchange turns are kept per Session, so every part of the chat is cleared.
     const parts = new Set([id, current, ...(bot.segments ?? []).map(segment => segment.sessionId)])
     delete state.bots[id]
+    delete state.remoteContacts?.[id]
     for (const part of parts) {
       delete state.questions[part]
       delete state.exchangeTurns[part]
diff --git a/core/test/flybot.test.js b/core/test/flybot.test.js
index 060ca24ef..a6b8320a6 100644
--- a/core/test/flybot.test.js
+++ b/core/test/flybot.test.js
@@ -268,6 +268,27 @@ test('a remote sender the plugin says typed the line is marked on the message so
   assert.equal('typedBy' in sources[1].remote, false)
 })
 
+test("#420: a friend's line stamps the receiving Bot for its unread mark, and only a sender's first line is first contact", async (t) => {
+  const { fb, agents, call, stop, grantTo } = await start()
+  t.after(stop)
+  await grantTo('a', '@bob.bot')
+  await grantTo('a', '@carol.bot')
+  const before = (await call('state', {})).value
+  assert.equal(before.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'a').friendLineAt, undefined)
+  await fb.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle: '@bob.bot', name: 'Bob (typed via @bob.bot, Bot Social)', typedBy: 'Bob' }, to: 'a', text: 'hi' })
+  const first = (await call('state', {})).value
+  const stamp = first.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'a').friendLineAt
+  assert.ok(Number.isFinite(stamp), 'the Bot carries the stamp')
+  assert.ok(first.revision > before.revision, 'the stamp moves the revision, so an open window reads it')
+  assert.equal(first.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'b').friendLineAt, undefined, 'other Bots are untouched')
+  assert.equal('remoteContacts' in first, false, 'the senders seen stay on the host')
+  await fb.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle: '@bob.bot', name: 'Bob' }, to: 'a', text: 'again' })
+  await fb.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle: '@carol.bot', name: 'Carol' }, to: 'a', text: 'me too' })
+  const sources = agents.get('a').calls.map(([, m]) => m.source)
+  assert.deepEqual(sources.map(source => [source.remote.handle, source.remote.firstContact === true]), [['@bob.bot', true], ['@bob.bot', false], ['@carol.bot', true]])
+  assert.ok((await call('state', {})).value.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'a').friendLineAt >= stamp)
+})
+
 test('#226: chatApprovals.changed moves the team revision so a friend chat badge refreshes', async (t) => {
   const { fb, call, stop } = await start()
   t.after(stop)
diff --git a/core/test/friend-lines.test.js b/core/test/friend-lines.test.js
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..b773c8830
--- /dev/null
+++ b/core/test/friend-lines.test.js
@@ -0,0 +1,36 @@
+import assert from 'node:assert/strict'
+import { test } from 'node:test'
+import { friendLineNews } from '../src/client/friend-lines.js'
+
+const closed = () => false
+
+test("#420: a friend's line in a Bot's chat that is not open marks that Bot unread once", () => {
+  const bots = [{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 200 }, { id: 'b' }]
+  const news = friendLineNews(bots, { a: 100 }, closed)
+  assert.deepEqual(news.unread, ['a'])
+  assert.deepEqual(news.known, { a: 200 })
+  // The same stamp again (the next pull) marks nothing: opening the chat cleared the mark.
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews(bots, news.known, closed).unread, [])
+})
+
+test("#420: the first friend's line a Bot ever gets is news too, once this browser keeps a record", () => {
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews([{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 50 }], {}, closed).unread, ['a'])
+})
+
+test('#420: a line that arrives while its chat is on screen was seen live', () => {
+  const news = friendLineNews([{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 300 }], { a: 100 }, bot => bot.id === 'a')
+  assert.deepEqual(news.unread, [])
+  assert.deepEqual(news.known, { a: 300 }, 'recorded, so leaving the chat does not mark it later')
+})
+
+test('#420: a browser with no record yet takes what is there as shown', () => {
+  const news = friendLineNews([{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 300 }, { id: 'b' }], null, closed)
+  assert.deepEqual(news.unread, [])
+  assert.deepEqual(news.known, { a: 300 })
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews([{ id: 'b' }], null, closed).known, {}, 'an empty record still starts tracking')
+})
+
+test("#420: a friend's Bot chat and another member's shared Bot are not marked here", () => {
+  const bots = [{ id: 'r', remote: { handle: '@x.home' }, friendLineAt: 9 }, { id: 'theirs', ownerId: 'm2', friendLineAt: 9 }, { id: 'mine', ownerId: 'm1', friendLineAt: 9 }]
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews(bots, {}, closed, 'm1').unread, ['mine'])
+})
diff --git a/core/test/inbound-ui.test.js b/core/test/inbound-ui.test.js
index a2237e0c0..76316afab 100644
--- a/core/test/inbound-ui.test.js
+++ b/core/test/inbound-ui.test.js
@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@ import { build } from 'esbuild'
 // The inbound friend conversation's display: trace lines, the thinking row, the remote speaker.
 const { outputFiles } = await build({
   stdin: {
-    contents: "export { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions } from './src/client/text.js'\nexport { remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage } from './src/client/cells.js'\nexport { lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed } from './src/client/characters.js'\nexport { roomAvatarPeople } from './src/client/mark.js'",
+    contents: "export { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions } from './src/client/text.js'\nexport { remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage, FirstContact } from './src/client/cells.js'\nexport { lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed } from './src/client/characters.js'\nexport { roomAvatarPeople } from './src/client/mark.js'",
     resolveDir: fileURLToPath(new URL('..', import.meta.url)),
   },
   bundle: true, format: 'cjs', platform: 'browser', write: false, logLevel: 'silent',
@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ runInNewContext(outputFiles[0].text, {
     throw new Error(`Unexpected platform module ${name}`)
   },
 })
-const { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions, remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage, lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed, roomAvatarPeople } = module.exports
+const { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions, remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage, FirstContact, lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed, roomAvatarPeople } = module.exports
 
 test('a reply opening with a delegation trace shows without it', () => {
   assert.equal(stripTrace('Chief → 助手\n\nHi Chief! Good to hear from you.'), 'Hi Chief! Good to hear from you.')
@@ -201,3 +201,14 @@ test('#275: a typed line from a friend has one short header: the person, then "v
   assert.ok(via)
   assert.doesNotMatch(header(known), /typed via|Bot Social|'s Bot/)
 })
+
+test("#420: a sender's first line in a Bot's own chat gets one quiet line naming who talks to which Bot", () => {
+  const roster = { bots: [], remoteBots: [], byId: { s: { id: 'a', name: 'Chief' } } }
+  const text = node => flat(node).flatMap(n => (Array.isArray(n.props?.children) ? n.props.children : [])).filter(c => typeof c === 'string').join('')
+  const typed = FirstContact({ roster, sessionId: 's', source: { remote: { handle: '@chief.selfb1238.home', typedBy: 'SelfB1238', firstContact: true }, senderName: 'SelfB1238 (typed via @chief.selfb1238.home, Bot Social)' } })
+  assert.equal(typed.props.className, 'bt-event')
+  assert.equal(text(typed), 'SelfB1238 is talking to Chief through Bot Social')
+  const known = { ...roster, remoteBots: [{ handle: '@helper.selfb1238.home', name: 'Helper', owner: 'SelfB1238' }] }
+  const bot = FirstContact({ roster: known, sessionId: 's', source: { remote: { handle: '@helper.selfb1238.home', firstContact: true }, senderName: 'Helper' } })
+  assert.equal(text(bot), 'Helper (SelfB1238) is talking to Chief through Bot Social')
+})
diff --git a/docs/subsystems/core-client.md b/docs/subsystems/core-client.md
index f06e186ed..46e761bb6 100644
--- a/docs/subsystems/core-client.md
+++ b/docs/subsystems/core-client.md
@@ -142,3 +142,4 @@ A discarded `.catch(() => {})` in the client sources either starts with `void` (
 `npm test` in `core/` (it also fails when `client.js` is stale).
 - A friend's line that Bot Social attests the friend typed themselves (#227) is drawn as the person: `AssistantCell` looks the turn up in `roster.remoteTypedTurns` (`typedBy` in `src/client/text.js`) and renders `PersonMessage` — the person's name and a person mark (`.bt-person-mark`) — instead of the Bot's `Bubbles`. The name comes from the roster (the authenticated Bot Social `from`), never from message text.
 - The same attested line sent to one of my own Bots outside that friend's chat (a friend's Chief typing to my Helper) arrives as a remote message whose source has `remote.typedBy`; `RemoteMessage` (`cells.js`) then draws it as the person (name, person mark, `via <Bot>`) instead of the friend's Bot avatar and handle. Without `typedBy` it keeps the Bot rendering (#233 follow-up). The `via` name is the carrying Bot's plain name when this home knows that Bot (its chat or `roster.remoteBots`), and is left out when it does not; the model-facing sender label (`X (typed via @…, Bot Social)`) and the handle-derived `· owner's Bot` never reach that header (#275). Settings → Bots offers only the user's own Bots as a Main Bot, in the first-Main-Bot and Add a Main Bot selects (#276).
+- A friend's line in my Bot's own chat (#420): `friend-lines.js` `friendLineNews` compares each Bot's host stamp `friendLineAt` with the last stamp this browser has shown (`localStorage` `ds-bot:friend-lines`; stamps against stamps, never this browser's clock) and, when a newer one arrives while that chat is not visited, `index.js` marks the Bot unread the way **Mark as Unread** does, so the row shows the blue dot until the chat is opened. A browser with no record yet takes what is there as shown; another member's shared Bot and a friend's Bot chat are skipped. The Main Bot tile shows the same dot (`.bt-tile-unread`; a wait still shows on its avatar). A line whose source has `remote.firstContact` opens with one muted `FirstContact` line (`cells.js`): `<person or friend's Bot> is talking to <Bot> through Bot Social`. Covered by `core/test/friend-lines.test.js` and `core/test/inbound-ui.test.js`.
diff --git a/docs/subsystems/core-host.md b/docs/subsystems/core-host.md
index 78dcec677..1d4982aa3 100644
--- a/docs/subsystems/core-host.md
+++ b/docs/subsystems/core-host.md
@@ -148,6 +148,7 @@ credentials and team mode remain separate work under #55/#198.
 - `0002-flybot-api-host` `cleanRemote` sanitizes those peer-controlled `name` / `homeName` / `owner` labels (strip `@` and controls/newlines, 60-char cap) before they are stored. Details in [plugin-runtime](plugin-runtime.md) (#75).
 - A friend's Bot @-mentioned in a group never has its reply delivered back into that group (it lands in the friend's Bot's own chat), so the host posts one receipt line into the room per mention (`src/host/hooks.js` `mentionReceipt`, source role `mention`) and the client renders it as a muted event line (`src/client/cells.js`) (#80, #81). The role stays outside the room's round trigger (`groups.js` `opens`) and outside `RELAY_ROLES`, so the receipt opens no round and folds no turns. When that friend's Bot is already a current participant of the room, `sendUserMentions` skips the 1:1 `bot.send` entirely (#143): the human line in the room is the delivery, and Chief's grant is not consulted. A friend's line Bot Social attests they typed themselves (#227) arrives as `remoteChats.deliver({ human: true, ownerName })`: the message source carries `typedBy`, `turns.js` `claimTrigger` records the turn in `state.remoteTypedTurns[sessionId][turn]` (capped at 400 per Session, dropped with the part), `channel.js` publishes it as `roster.remoteTypedTurns` (narrowed per owner in `authz.js`), and the client draws that turn's reply as the person (`typedBy` in `src/client/text.js`, `PersonMessage` in `cells.js`). The flag is never derived from text. A failed 1:1 remote-chat send (`remote-chat.js` `forward` / `notSentLine`) is one short English line with a next step, never a raw `Bot Social send_as_member: …` preview. A local Bot's answer to a friend's Bot (`turns.js` `answer` → `flybotReplyRemote`, `role: 'reply'`, `via: 'auto-reply'`) that the send chain refuses is logged with its reason (#272): a `deny` resolves, it does not throw.
 - `deliver()` (`src/host/delivery.js`) copies a cleaned, plugin-attested `remote.typedBy` onto the message `source.remote` for a friend's line to a local Bot; the client uses it to draw the person (#233 follow-up).
+- A friend's line in a Bot's own chat (#420): `deliver()` (`noteFriendLine`) stamps the receiving Bot with `friendLineAt` (published in the roster, so the save moves the revision) and keeps the senders seen per Bot in `state.remoteContacts[botId][handle]` (host only, capped at 200, dropped with the Bot). A sender's first line carries `source.remote.firstContact`. Group lines, and re-deliveries (`deferred`, `resumed`, `retried`, `resent`), stamp nothing. Covered by `core/test/flybot.test.js`.
 
 ### Connectors: GitHub and the Composio gateway (#311)
 
diff --git a/docs/subsystems/plugin-runtime.md b/docs/subsystems/plugin-runtime.md
index c1c6d2d4f..04b793339 100644
--- a/docs/subsystems/plugin-runtime.md
+++ b/docs/subsystems/plugin-runtime.md
@@ -96,4 +96,5 @@ FlyBot's plugin API surface on top of the patched core: host hooks, client slots
 - Changing slots without updating types or client tests.
 - `flybot.remote.chats.deliver({ handle, text, name?, home?, human?, ownerName? })` (#227): `human: true` is the plugin's server-attested "the friend typed this line themselves" (Bot Social `typed_by_owner`, never derived from text) and `ownerName` the authenticated owner label; the host then draws that turn's reply as the person. Plugins that cannot attest leave both out and the line stays the Bot's.
 - `flybot.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle, home?, typedBy? }, ... })`: `typedBy` is the plugin's server-attested owner name for a line the friend typed (Bot Social `typed_by_owner`); `toRemote` (`src/host/hooks.js`) cleans it and the host stores it as the message source's `remote.typedBy` so the chat draws the person, not the Bot. Never derive it from text; plugins that cannot attest omit it.
+- A remote sender's line that reaches a local Bot's own chat through `flybot.bot.send` stamps that Bot's `friendLineAt` in the roster (its row turns unread in a window where the chat is not open) and marks the sender's first line `remote.firstContact` (#420, `src/host/delivery.js`). A refused send stamps nothing. Covered by `core/test/flybot.test.js`.
 - The approval card queue (`FlyBotApprovals`) runs all its hooks on every render, before its empty-queue early return: a hook after it makes React throw when the first hold arrives and no card ever draws (#254; `core/test/overlay-approvals.test.js`).
diff --git a/docs/subsystems/social.md b/docs/subsystems/social.md
index dd732522e..68276bcb2 100644
--- a/docs/subsystems/social.md
+++ b/docs/subsystems/social.md
@@ -148,6 +148,10 @@ pins the list. The authority for the list is Bot Social's README and `docs/FACE_
 
 `friendLabel` (thinking line, card names), `faceMemberLabel` (face-room join/leave lines and member labels), the waiting tiles (`FaceTile` title) and a face room's thinking line (every remote Bot with a known owner, not only on a name clash) all read `<Bot> (<owner>)`, the same as the core's `remoteBotTitle`; a friend's Chief is `Chief (Bob)`. `social/friends` adds each Bot's `owner` / `homeName` (additive), and the composer `@` rows from this plugin (`friendRows`) sit in the core's **Bots** section with that name and the handle as description, and skip handles the core already lists from `roster.remoteBots` (no separate Friends' Bots section).
 
+### Friends listed per Bot (#420)
+
+`social/overview` (`friendsOverview`) asks `list_friends` for the home and for every active member identity, as `setAutoAccept` does, because a per-Bot invite hangs the relationship on the member (`@chief.alice.home` ↔ `@chief.bob.home`), not on the home. Each relationship is listed once (by `relationship_id`); a row found through a member carries that local Bot (`botId`, `botName`). Pending requests are gathered the same way, so Add friend shows per-Bot requests too. A member whose read fails costs only its own rows; a failed home read still fails the call. Owner decision (2026-10-19): a grantee's lines stay in the Bot's own chat (invariant 8) with no thread per person, and a friend with no Bot shared to me gets no sidebar row; the Bot's row turns unread for a friend's line instead (core `friendLineAt`, see core-client).
+
 ### Past rooms, unique titles, poll, and + (#129–#133)
 
 - Expired matching (`candidate` whose `expiresAt` has passed) and a peer leaving the last remote seat move the hosted room to **Past rooms** on the next poll (`rememberPastFace`, status `closed` / `left`). The local room stays so **Open** still works; **Leave** is not shown on those cards. Face-room names are `Face-to-face · Alice, Bob · 482913` (people plus the 6-digit code, or `Oct 16 21:40` when there is no code) so two rooms with the same people stay distinct. The literal `Face-to-face room` is not a fallback.
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/0001-core-fixes.patch b/patches/ds-bot/0001-core-fixes.patch
index 1e6b25277..79177db1b 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/0001-core-fixes.patch
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/0001-core-fixes.patch
@@ -538,11 +538,13 @@ diff --git a/src/client/i18n.js b/src/client/i18n.js
    'Open updates': '打开更新',
  
    // Command palette
-@@ -403,6 +403,7 @@ const ZH = {
+@@ -403,6 +403,9 @@ const ZH = {
    'Replies from': '群聊回复：',
    'Reply from': '收到回复：',
    'Message from': '收到消息：',
 +  'via {name}': '经由 {name}',
++  '{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social': '{name} 正通过 Bot Social 和 {bot} 对话',
++  'your Bot': '你的 Bot',
    'Stopped by': '叫停者：',
    '{count} messages with': '{count} 条消息，来自',
    'Routine started': '例行任务开始',
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/0002-flybot-api-host.patch b/patches/ds-bot/0002-flybot-api-host.patch
index 64ec793b6..2ce712d14 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/0002-flybot-api-host.patch
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/0002-flybot-api-host.patch
@@ -346,7 +346,11 @@ diff --git a/src/host/roster.js b/src/host/roster.js
      await rt.save()
    }
  
-@@ -438,6 +438,7 @@ export function install(rt) {
+@@ -435,9 +435,11 @@ export function install(rt) {
+     // Questions and exchange turns are kept per Session, so every part of the chat is cleared.
+     const parts = new Set([id, current, ...(bot.segments ?? []).map(segment => segment.sessionId)])
+     delete state.bots[id]
++    delete state.remoteContacts?.[id]
      for (const part of parts) {
        delete state.questions[part]
        delete state.exchangeTurns[part]
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/0003-flybot-api-client.patch b/patches/ds-bot/0003-flybot-api-client.patch
index 741ed7d64..a71f31a12 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/0003-flybot-api-client.patch
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/0003-flybot-api-client.patch
@@ -298,7 +298,7 @@ diff --git a/src/client/cells.js b/src/client/cells.js
  }
  
  function EventLine({ prefix, bots, joiner = t('and'), onOpen, whole = false }) {
-@@ -170,16 +170,128 @@ function EventLine({ prefix, bots, joiner = t('and'), onOpen, whole = false }) {
+@@ -170,16 +170,137 @@ function EventLine({ prefix, bots, joiner = t('and'), onOpen, whole = false }) {
    return h('div', { className: 'bt-event' }, parts)
  }
  
@@ -394,6 +394,15 @@ diff --git a/src/client/cells.js b/src/client/cells.js
 +    files.length ? h(RemoteFiles, { files, plugin: member?.plugin ?? 'social', botId: roster.byId[sessionId]?.id ?? sessionId }) : null)
 +}
 +
++// A sender's first line in a Bot's own chat (#420): one quiet line says who is talking to the Bot
++// and how, so the line is not read as one of my own messages.
++export function FirstContact({ source, roster, sessionId }) {
++  const person = typeof source.remote.typedBy === 'string' ? source.remote.typedBy : ''
++  const who = person || remoteSpeaker(source, roster).name
++  const bot = roster.byId[sessionId]?.name ?? t('your Bot')
++  return h('div', { className: 'bt-event', 'data-first-contact': source.remote.handle }, h('span', null, t('{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social', { name: who, bot })))
++}
++
 +function GlobeMark() {
 +  return h('svg', { width: 10, height: 10, viewBox: '0 0 24 24', fill: 'none', stroke: 'currentColor', strokeWidth: 2, strokeLinecap: 'round', 'aria-hidden': true },
 +    h('circle', { cx: 12, cy: 12, r: 9 }), h('path', { d: 'M3 12h18M12 3a14 14 0 0 1 0 18M12 3a14 14 0 0 0 0 18' }))
@@ -430,14 +439,15 @@ diff --git a/src/client/cells.js b/src/client/cells.js
  // A centered event line that names a group chat and opens it.
  function GroupEvent({ prefix, room, name, roster, actions }) {
    return h('div', { className: 'bt-event' },
-@@ -331,17 +331,27 @@ export function TriggerCell({ node, sessionId, useRoster, useSessions, useTurnCl
+@@ -331,17 +331,28 @@ export function TriggerCell({ node, sessionId, useRoster, useSessions, useTurnCl
      : body
  
    function triggerBody() {
 +    // A friend's message in its remote chat: the reply below shows it (remote-chat.js).
 +    if (source.form === 'remote-chat') return null
 +    if (source.remote?.handle) {
-+      return h(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi })
++      const message = h(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi })
++      return source.remote.firstContact === true ? h(Fragment, null, h(FirstContact, { source, roster, sessionId }), message) : message
 +    }
      if (source.kind === 'bot') {
        // A part opens with its handoff package, so the earlier parts go right above it.
@@ -700,7 +710,7 @@ diff --git a/src/client/icons.js b/src/client/icons.js
 diff --git a/src/client/index.js b/src/client/index.js
 --- a/src/client/index.js
 +++ b/src/client/index.js
-@@ -1,25 +1,29 @@
+@@ -1,33 +1,38 @@
 +import { FLYBOT_CSS, FlyBotApprovals, FlyBotSessionDock, createClientApi as createFlyBotClient } from './flybot-slots.js'
  import { call } from './api.js'
  import { isHex, inkText, paintCss } from './inks.js'
@@ -735,8 +745,9 @@ diff --git a/src/client/index.js b/src/client/index.js
  import { GROUP_SETTINGS_CSS } from './group-settings.js'
  import { FOLDER_CSS } from './folder-menu.js'
  import { USAGE_CSS } from './usage-page.js'
-@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ import { SCHEDULE_CSS } from './schedules.js'
+ import { SCHEDULE_CSS } from './schedules.js'
  import { STORAGE, migrateStorage } from './storage.js'
++import { friendLineNews } from './friend-lines.js'
  import { groupsFor, readMode, surfaceGroups, writeMode } from './surface.js'
  import { installLocale, language } from './i18n.js'
 -import { noteClientError, quietly } from './diagnostics.js'
@@ -763,8 +774,13 @@ diff --git a/src/client/index.js b/src/client/index.js
    migrateStorage()
    const UNREAD_KEY = STORAGE.unread
    let savedUnread = {}
-@@ -52,7 +52,7 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
+@@ -50,9 +50,12 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
+   const SEEN_KEY = STORAGE.seen
+   let seenAt = {}
    try { seenAt = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem(SEEN_KEY) ?? '{}') ?? {} } catch { seenAt = {} }
++  // Per Bot, the last friend's-line stamp this browser has shown (friend-lines.js); null: no record yet.
++  let friendLines = null
++  try { friendLines = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem(STORAGE.friendLines) ?? 'null') } catch { friendLines = null }
    // `details` is the panel's subject (a Session id); `view` picks details or the
    // subject Bot's browser inside it.
 -  const ui = createSource({ details: null, view: 'details', renaming: false, tab: null, newChat: null, exchange: null, menu: null, voice: null, palette: null, quote: null, settings: null, memory: null, toast: null, signIn: null, renameAgent: null, unread: savedUnread, reactions: savedReactions, visits: {} })
@@ -772,7 +788,25 @@ diff --git a/src/client/index.js b/src/client/index.js
    // Bot mode paints the whole team surface; Agent mode withdraws every slot and
    // style so the shell's own interface returns. `plain` stays false until a Bot-mode
    // view hosts a plain session, which drops only the conversation replacements.
-@@ -145,6 +145,8 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
+@@ -125,6 +125,17 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
+     try { localStorage.setItem(UNREAD_KEY, JSON.stringify(unread)) } catch { /* storage unavailable */ }
+     return { ...state, unread }
+   })
++  // A friend's line in a Bot's chat that is not on screen marks the Bot unread, like Mark as Unread,
++  // and opening the chat clears it (#420).
++  const noteFriendLines = (value) => {
++    const visited = new Set(Object.keys(ui.getSnapshot().visits ?? {}).map(seenKey))
++    const news = friendLineNews(value.bots, friendLines, bot => visited.has(bot.id), value.self?.memberId)
++    if (JSON.stringify(news.known) !== JSON.stringify(friendLines ?? null)) {
++      friendLines = news.known
++      try { localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.friendLines, JSON.stringify(friendLines)) } catch { /* storage unavailable */ }
++    }
++    for (const id of news.unread) setUnread(id, true)
++  }
+   const refreshed = new Set()
+   // Pulls can overlap (the poll and a navigation); an older answer never wins.
+   let pulls = 0
+@@ -145,11 +145,14 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
      const live = {}
      if (value.connectors !== undefined && JSON.stringify(value.connectors) !== JSON.stringify(current.connectors ?? [])) live.connectors = value.connectors
      if (value.capabilityStatuses !== undefined && JSON.stringify(value.capabilityStatuses) !== JSON.stringify(current.capabilityStatuses ?? {})) live.capabilityStatuses = value.capabilityStatuses
@@ -781,6 +815,12 @@ diff --git a/src/client/index.js b/src/client/index.js
      if (Object.keys(live).length > 0 && current.ready) roster.set({ ...current, ...live })
      if (value.unchanged || (value.revision === current.revision && value.modelsKey === current.modelsKey)) return
      // On a browser with no visit record yet, everything already there counts as seen.
+     if (Object.keys(seenAt).length === 0) leaveVisits([...value.bots, ...value.rooms].map(entry => entry.id))
+     roster.set(indexRoster(value))
++    noteFriendLines(value)
+     try {
+       const ids = (value.agents ?? []).flatMap(agent => agent.sessions ?? [])
+       localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.agentSessions, JSON.stringify(ids))
 @@ -325,7 +325,7 @@ export function apply(ctx) {
  
    ctx.inject(['shortcuts'], scope => { scope.effect(() => holdShellShortcuts(scope.shortcuts), 'ds-bot: settings shortcut') })
@@ -1292,7 +1332,7 @@ diff --git a/src/client/sidebar.js b/src/client/sidebar.js
  import { showsDshRow } from './dsh-offer.js'
  
  // -------------------------------------------------------------------------
-@@ -37,56 +37,115 @@ const workKeys = text => (text === '' ? [] : text.split(',').map((key) => {
+@@ -37,56 +37,117 @@ const workKeys = text => (text === '' ? [] : text.split(',').map((key) => {
  }))
  const workLine = (lead, tool, more) => h(Shimmer, null, `${lead} · ${workPhrase(tool)}…${more > 0 ? ` +${more}` : ''}`)
  
@@ -1344,6 +1384,8 @@ diff --git a/src/client/sidebar.js b/src/client/sidebar.js
      h(BotAvatar, { bot, size: 60, state, main: true }),
 -    h('span', { className: 'bt-tile-name' }, bot.name),
 +    h('span', { className: 'bt-tile-name' }, shown),
++    // The Main Bot's tile gets the same unread dot as a row (#420); a wait shows on its avatar.
++    unread && !waiting && !active ? h('span', { className: 'bt-unread bt-tile-unread', 'aria-hidden': true }) : null,
      bot.role ? h('span', { className: 'bt-chip' }, bot.role) : null))
    }
 -  return h('button', {
@@ -1708,6 +1750,17 @@ diff --git a/src/client/sidebar.js b/src/client/sidebar.js
 +.bt-row-settings:hover{opacity:1;color:var(--bt-ink-2);background:var(--bt-hover)}
 +.bt-row-settings svg{width:15px;height:15px}
  `
+diff --git a/src/client/storage.js b/src/client/storage.js
+--- a/src/client/storage.js
++++ b/src/client/storage.js
+@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ export const STORAGE = {
+   unread: 'ds-bot:unread',
+   reactions: 'ds-bot:reactions',
+   seen: 'ds-bot:seen',
++  friendLines: 'ds-bot:friend-lines',
+   prefs: 'ds-bot:prefs',
+   surface: 'ds-bot:surface',
+   agentSessions: 'ds-bot:agent-sessions',
 diff --git a/src/client/styles.js b/src/client/styles.js
 --- a/src/client/styles.js
 +++ b/src/client/styles.js
@@ -1734,7 +1787,7 @@ diff --git a/src/client/styles.js b/src/client/styles.js
  @keyframes bt-q-ride{0%,55%,100%{transform:translateY(0)}20%{transform:translateY(calc(var(--bt-size,36px) * -.14))}40%{transform:translateY(0)}}
  /* Petting: with the pointer on a sidebar avatar or just around it (a ring a fifth of its
     size wide), a resting mark leans into the pointer and keeps nuzzling it, its eyes
-@@ -115,7 +115,14 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
+@@ -115,15 +115,23 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
  .bt-side{display:flex;flex-direction:column;min-height:0;flex:1 1 auto;gap:2px;padding:0 12px 8px 0;color:var(--bt-ink);font-family:-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,"Segoe UI",system-ui,sans-serif}
  .bt-side-top{display:flex;justify-content:flex-end;align-items:center;gap:8px;padding:6px 5px 0 0}
  .bt-brand{display:inline-flex;align-items:center;gap:6px;margin-right:auto;padding:4px 8px 4px 4px;border:0;border-radius:8px;background:none;cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:20px;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:-.01em;color:var(--bt-ink);white-space:nowrap}
@@ -1750,6 +1803,16 @@ diff --git a/src/client/styles.js b/src/client/styles.js
  .bt-round{width:36px;height:36px;border-radius:50%;border:1px solid var(--bt-line);background:var(--bt-main);color:var(--bt-ink);display:inline-flex;align-items:center;justify-content:center;cursor:pointer;padding:0;transition:background-color .12s ease,transform .12s ease}
  .bt-round:hover{background:var(--bt-hover)}
  .bt-round:active{transform:scale(.94)}
+ .bt-list{display:flex;flex-direction:column;gap:3px;overflow-y:auto;min-height:0;flex:1 1 auto}
+ .bt-tile-wrap{display:flex;justify-content:center;padding:20px 0 15px}
+-.bt-tile{display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
++.bt-tile{position:relative;display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
+ .bt-tile:hover{background:var(--bt-hover)}
+ .bt-tile[aria-current=page]{background:var(--bt-active)}
++.bt-tile-unread{position:absolute;top:8px;right:12px}
+ .bt-tile-name{font-size:13px;line-height:18px;font-weight:400;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap}
+ .bt-chip{font-size:11px;line-height:16px;padding:1px 4px;border-radius:4px;background:var(--bt-hover);border:1px solid var(--bt-line);color:var(--bt-ink-2);white-space:nowrap;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis}
+ .bt-row{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:8px;min-height:54px;padding:8px;border:0;border-radius:10px;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);text-align:left;cursor:pointer;width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
 @@ -132,21 +132,24 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
  .bt-row-body{display:flex;flex-direction:column;min-width:0;flex:1 1 auto}
  .bt-row-name{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:6px;min-width:0;font-size:14px;line-height:20px;font-weight:400}
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/0005-social-seams.patch b/patches/ds-bot/0005-social-seams.patch
index 1190d9969..6a96406a3 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/0005-social-seams.patch
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/0005-social-seams.patch
@@ -712,7 +712,7 @@ diff --git a/src/host/delivery.js b/src/host/delivery.js
      return resolved.agent
    }
  
-@@ -28,6 +28,18 @@ export function install(rt) {
+@@ -28,6 +28,38 @@ export function install(rt) {
      return `[Message from ${fromName}]`
    }
  
@@ -727,11 +727,31 @@ diff --git a/src/host/delivery.js b/src/host/delivery.js
 +    const said = given ?? rt.botTurnOrigin?.(fromId)
 +    return said === OWNER || said === SCHEDULED ? OWNER : OTHER
 +  }
++
++  // A friend's line in a Bot's own chat (#420): `friendLineAt` on the Bot tells every window that a
++  // line it has not shown yet arrived (its row turns unread), and the senders seen so far, kept apart
++  // from the roster, tell the first line from a sender. A group line is the group's, not the Bot's.
++  const CONTACTS_KEPT = 200
++  const noteFriendLine = (to, sessionId, roomId, handle) => {
++    if (to === undefined || roomId || (sessionId !== undefined && sessionId !== rt.chatOf(to.id))) return false
++    const key = String(handle)
++    const contacts = (state.remoteContacts ??= {})[to.id] ??= {}
++    const first = contacts[key] === undefined
++    const now = Date.now()
++    if (first) {
++      contacts[key] = now
++      const keys = Object.keys(contacts)
++      if (keys.length > CONTACTS_KEPT) for (const old of keys.slice(0, keys.length - CONTACTS_KEPT)) delete contacts[old]
++    }
++    to.friendLineAt = now
++    void rt.save().catch(() => {})
++    return first
++  }
 +
    // Roles recorded as team exchanges.
    const EXCHANGE_ROLES = new Set(['request', 'reply', 'stopped'])
  
-@@ -39,12 +39,15 @@ export function install(rt) {
+@@ -39,12 +39,16 @@ export function install(rt) {
    // exchange is recorded already too. `askedBy` is the member whose @mention called a
    // group turn (groups.js). `fromRoomId`: the group whose Session the sender wrote
    // from; the reply goes back to that Session (turns.js).
@@ -746,6 +766,7 @@ diff --git a/src/host/delivery.js b/src/host/delivery.js
 +    const fromName = from?.name ?? (givenName === undefined ? 'You' : untrusted ? cleanName(givenName) : givenName)
      const room = rt.roomOf(roomId)
 +    const origin = originOf({ from, to, fromId, remote, given: givenOrigin })
++    const firstContact = remote?.handle && !deferred && !resumed && !retried && !resent ? noteFriendLine(to, sessionId, roomId, remote.handle) : false
      // Session events reject `undefined` members, so optional fields are omitted instead.
      const source = {
        kind: SOURCE_KIND,
@@ -758,13 +779,14 @@ diff --git a/src/host/delivery.js b/src/host/delivery.js
        ...(fromId ? { senderSessionId: fromId } : {}),
        ...(replyTo ? { replyTo } : {}),
        ...(roomId ? { roomId } : {}),
-@@ -62,6 +62,11 @@ export function install(rt) {
+@@ -62,6 +62,12 @@ export function install(rt) {
        ...(retried ? { retried: true } : {}),
        ...(askedBy ? { askedBy } : {}),
        ...(fromRoomId ? { senderRoomId: fromRoomId } : {}),
 +      // A remote member's message (FlyBot): the chat draws it as that member's bubble.
 +      // `typedBy`: the plugin has the server's attestation that this friend typed the line themselves.
-+      ...(remote?.handle ? { remote: { handle: String(remote.handle), ...(remote.home ? { home: String(remote.home) } : {}), ...(remote.typedBy ? { typedBy: cleanName(remote.typedBy) } : {}) } } : {}),
++      // `firstContact`: this sender's first line in the Bot's own chat; the chat names who is talking (#420).
++      ...(remote?.handle ? { remote: { handle: String(remote.handle), ...(remote.home ? { home: String(remote.home) } : {}), ...(remote.typedBy ? { typedBy: cleanName(remote.typedBy) } : {}), ...(firstContact ? { firstContact: true } : {}) } } : {}),
 +      // A remote member's files, as references the chat shows as chips (fetched on demand).
 +      ...(remote?.handle && Array.isArray(attachments) && attachments.length ? { attachments: attachments.map(file => ({ id: String(file.id ?? ''), name: String(file.name), size: Number(file.size), mime: String(file.mime ?? '') })) } : {}),
      }
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/0008-client-bundle.patch b/patches/ds-bot/0008-client-bundle.patch
index 8b8221334..eda502596 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/0008-client-bundle.patch
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/0008-client-bundle.patch
@@ -295,11 +295,13 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
    "Open updates": "打开更新",
    // Command palette
    Messages: "消息",
-@@ -459,6 +459,7 @@ var ZH = {
+@@ -459,6 +459,9 @@ var ZH = {
    "Replies from": "群聊回复：",
    "Reply from": "收到回复：",
    "Message from": "收到消息：",
 +  "via {name}": "经由 {name}",
++  "{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social": "{name} 正通过 Bot Social 和 {bot} 对话",
++  "your Bot": "你的 Bot",
    "Stopped by": "叫停者：",
    "{count} messages with": "{count} 条消息，来自",
    "Routine started": "例行任务开始",
@@ -963,6 +965,14 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 -  const byId = {};
 -  for (const bot of value.bots) {
 -    for (const id of [...bot.parts ?? [], bot.sessionId ?? bot.id, bot.id]) byId[id] = bot;
+-  }
+-  const roomsById = {};
+-  for (const room2 of value.rooms) roomsById[room2.id] = room2;
+-  const agentsById = {};
+-  const agentOf = {};
+-  for (const agent of value.agents ?? []) {
+-    agentsById[agent.id] = agent;
+-    for (const sessionId of agent.sessions ?? []) agentOf[sessionId] = agent.id;
 +var FIDGETS = ["hop", "sway", "stretch", "look"];
 +function BotMark({ bot, look: given, size = 36, state = "idle", live = false, gaze = false, pokeable = false, label }) {
 +  const look = given ?? (bot?.remote ? lookAvoidingLocals(bot) : lookOf(bot));
@@ -996,23 +1006,29 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      style: { fontSize: Math.max(12, Math.round(size * 0.62)), lineHeight: 1 }
 +    }, look.emoji));
    }
--  const roomsById = {};
--  for (const room2 of value.rooms) roomsById[room2.id] = room2;
--  const agentsById = {};
--  const agentOf = {};
--  for (const agent of value.agents ?? []) {
--    agentsById[agent.id] = agent;
--    for (const sessionId of agent.sessions ?? []) agentOf[sessionId] = agent.id;
+-  return { ...value, agents: value.agents ?? [], byId, roomsById, agentsById, agentOf, ready: true };
 +  const box = shapeOf(look.shape).size;
 +  return (0, import_react.createElement)("span", common, (0, import_react.createElement)("svg", { viewBox: `0 0 ${box} ${box}`, dangerouslySetInnerHTML: { __html: characterMarkup(look.shape, look.color).replaceAll(MASK_ID, maskId.current) } }));
-+}
+ }
+-function isAgentSession(roster, cache, sessionId) {
+-  if (sessionId === void 0 || sessionId === null || sessionId === "") return false;
+-  if (roster.ready) return roster.agentOf[sessionId] !== void 0;
+-  return cache.has(sessionId);
 +function StarIcon({ size = 8 }) {
 +  return (0, import_react.createElement)(
 +    "svg",
 +    { width: size, height: size, viewBox: "0 0 10 10", "aria-hidden": true },
 +    (0, import_react.createElement)("path", { d: "M5 .6l1.3 2.8 3 .3-2.3 2 .7 3L5 7.2 2.3 8.7l.7-3L.7 3.7l3-.3z", fill: "#fff" })
 +  );
-+}
+ }
+-function countCards(state, sessionId, callIds, delta) {
+-  const own = { ...state[sessionId] };
+-  for (const callId of callIds) {
+-    const count = (own[callId] ?? 0) + delta;
+-    if (count > 0) own[callId] = count;
+-    else delete own[callId];
+-  }
+-  return { ...state, [sessionId]: own };
 +function PersonMark({ size = 22 }) {
 +  return (0, import_react.createElement)(
 +    "span",
@@ -1024,17 +1040,109 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      (0, import_react.createElement)("path", { d: "M3.5 21c0-4.7 3.8-7.6 8.5-7.6s8.5 2.9 8.5 7.6z" })
 +    )
 +  );
-+}
+ }
+-
+-// src/client/themes.js
+-var THEME_KEYS = ["bg", "sidebar", "bubble", "card", "text", "user", "userText", "accent"];
+-var THEMES = {
+-  deepseek: {
+-    label: "DeepSeek",
+-    light: { bg: "#fcfcfc", sidebar: "#f7f7f7", bubble: "#eeeeee", card: "#ffffff", text: "#141414", user: "#070707", userText: "#fcfcfc", accent: "#4d6bfe" },
+-    dark: { bg: "#141414", sidebar: "#1b1b1b", bubble: "#262626", card: "#1f1f1f", text: "#f2f2f2", user: "#f2f2f2", userText: "#141414", accent: "#5b7bff" }
+-  },
+-  mono: {
+-    label: "Mono",
+-    light: { bg: "#ffffff", sidebar: "#f9f9f9", bubble: "#f0f0f0", card: "#ffffff", text: "#0d0d0d", user: "#0d0d0d", userText: "#ffffff", accent: "#0d0d0d" },
+-    dark: { bg: "#0f0f0f", sidebar: "#171717", bubble: "#242424", card: "#1c1c1c", text: "#f4f4f4", user: "#f4f4f4", userText: "#0f0f0f", accent: "#f4f4f4" }
+-  },
+-  paper: {
+-    label: "Paper",
+-    light: { bg: "#faf9f5", sidebar: "#f3f0e8", bubble: "#ebe7dc", card: "#ffffff", text: "#1f1e1b", user: "#2b2a26", userText: "#faf9f5", accent: "#d97757" },
+-    dark: { bg: "#1f1e1b", sidebar: "#262521", bubble: "#34322d", card: "#2a2925", text: "#f3f0e8", user: "#f3f0e8", userText: "#1f1e1b", accent: "#e08a6d" }
+-  },
+-  moonlight: {
+-    label: "Moonlight",
+-    light: { bg: "#f7f9fc", sidebar: "#eef2f8", bubble: "#e5ebf5", card: "#ffffff", text: "#121826", user: "#1e3a8a", userText: "#ffffff", accent: "#1e86ff" },
+-    dark: { bg: "#0b1020", sidebar: "#10172a", bubble: "#1a2340", card: "#141c33", text: "#e8edf7", user: "#3b6fd8", userText: "#ffffff", accent: "#4f9dff" }
+-  }
+-};
+-var rgba = (hex, alpha) => `rgba(${[1, 3, 5].map((index) => parseInt(hex.slice(index, index + 2), 16)).join(",")},${alpha})`;
+-function themeVars(mode, dark, accent = mode.accent) {
+-  return {
+-    "--bt-ink": mode.text,
+-    "--bt-ink-2": rgba(mode.text, 0.6),
+-    "--bt-ink-3": rgba(mode.text, 0.36),
+-    "--bt-bubble": mode.bubble,
+-    "--bt-sidebar": mode.sidebar,
+-    "--bt-main": mode.bg,
+-    "--bt-card": mode.card,
+-    "--bt-line": rgba(mode.text, 0.08),
+-    "--bt-line-2": rgba(mode.text, 0.15),
+-    "--bt-hover": dark ? "rgba(160,160,160,.12)" : "rgba(119,119,119,.09)",
+-    "--bt-active": dark ? "rgba(160,160,160,.2)" : "rgba(119,119,119,.17)",
+-    "--bt-accent": accent,
+-    "--bt-accent-ink": luminance(accent) > 0.45 ? "#141414" : "#ffffff",
+-    "--bt-user": mode.user,
+-    "--bt-user-ink": mode.userText,
+-    "--bt-tag-bg": rgba(mode.text, dark ? 0.09 : 0.06),
+-    "--bt-tag-ink": rgba(mode.text, 0.58)
+-  };
 +function AdminStar() {
 +  return (0, import_react.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-admin-star", role: "img", "aria-label": t("Admin") }, (0, import_react.createElement)(StarIcon, { size: 7 }));
-+}
+ }
+-var declarations = (vars) => Object.entries(vars).map(([name, value]) => `${name}:${value}`).join(";");
+-var themeCss = (theme, accent) => `html body{${declarations(themeVars(theme.light, false, accent ?? theme.light.accent))}}
+-html body[data-ds-dark-theme]{${declarations(themeVars(theme.dark, true, accent ?? theme.dark.accent))}}
+-${theme.css ?? ""}`;
+-var shellTokens = ({ light, dark }) => ({
+-  "--dsw-alias-bg-base": { light: light.bg, dark: dark.bg },
+-  "--dsw-specific-sidebar-fill": { light: light.sidebar, dark: dark.sidebar },
+-  "--dsw-specific-input-major": { light: light.bg, dark: dark.sidebar },
+-  "--dsw-alias-label-primary": { light: light.text, dark: dark.text },
+-  "--dsw-alias-label-secondary": { light: rgba(light.text, 0.74), dark: rgba(dark.text, 0.74) },
+-  "--dsw-alias-label-tertiary": { light: rgba(light.text, 0.6), dark: rgba(dark.text, 0.6) }
+-});
+-var customThemes = {};
+-var registry = createSource(0);
+-var isPoint = (point) => Array.isArray(point) && point.length === 2 && point.every(Number.isFinite);
+-function registerShape(id, shape) {
+-  if (typeof id !== "string" || !/^[a-z][\w-]{0,31}$/.test(id)) throw new Error("Shape ids are lowercase words");
+-  if (typeof shape?.body !== "function" || typeof shape.body("#000") !== "string") throw new Error("A shape needs body(paint) returning SVG markup");
+-  const at = shape.eyes?.at;
+-  if (!Array.isArray(at) || at.length !== 2 || !at.every(isPoint)) throw new Error("A shape needs eyes.at: two [x, y] points");
+-  const size = Number.isFinite(shape.size) && shape.size > 0 ? shape.size : 100;
+-  const pick2 = (key, fallback) => Number.isFinite(shape.eyes[key]) ? shape.eyes[key] : fallback;
+-  const eyes = at.map(([x, y]) => [x, y, pick2("w", size * 0.1), pick2("h", size * 0.23), pick2("tilt", -27)]);
+-  const previous = SHAPES[id];
+-  SHAPES[id] = {
+-    label: String(shape.label ?? id),
+-    size,
+-    body: shape.body,
+-    eyes,
+-    ...typeof shape.wrap === "string" ? { wrap: shape.wrap } : {}
+-  };
+-  const refresh = () => {
+-    markupCache.clear();
+-    maskCache.delete(id);
+-    registry.set((value) => value + 1);
+-  };
+-  refresh();
+-  return () => {
+-    if (previous) SHAPES[id] = previous;
+-    else delete SHAPES[id];
+-    refresh();
+-  };
 +function MainStar() {
 +  return (0, import_react.createElement)(
 +    "svg",
 +    { viewBox: "0 0 20 20", "aria-hidden": true },
 +    (0, import_react.createElement)("path", { d: "M10 2.4l2.29 5.04 5.51.63-4.09 3.74 1.11 5.42L10 14.5l-4.82 2.73 1.11-5.42L2.2 8.07l5.51-.63z" })
 +  );
-+}
+ }
+-function registerTheme(id, theme) {
+-  if (typeof id !== "string" || !/^[a-z][\w-]{0,31}$/.test(id)) throw new Error("Theme ids are lowercase words");
+-  for (const mode of ["light", "dark"]) {
+-    for (const key of THEME_KEYS) if (!isHex(theme?.[mode]?.[key])) throw new Error(`Theme ${mode}.${key} must be a #rrggbb color`);
 +function useSettled(state) {
 +  const prev = (0, import_react.useRef)(state);
 +  const [settled, setSettled] = (0, import_react.useState)(false);
@@ -1074,14 +1182,16 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    const rest = frame - size;
 +    return [[rest / 2, 0, size], [0, rest, size], [rest, rest, size]];
    }
--  return { ...value, agents: value.agents ?? [], byId, roomsById, agentsById, agentOf, ready: true };
+-  const previous = customThemes[id];
+-  customThemes[id] = { label: String(theme.label ?? id), light: theme.light, dark: theme.dark, css: typeof theme.css === "string" ? theme.css : "" };
+-  registry.set((value) => value + 1);
+-  return () => {
+-    if (previous) customThemes[id] = previous;
+-    else delete customThemes[id];
+-    registry.set((value) => value + 1);
 +  const half = frame / 2;
 +  return [[0, 0, half], [half, 0, half], [0, half, half], [half, half, half]];
- }
--function isAgentSession(roster, cache, sessionId) {
--  if (sessionId === void 0 || sessionId === null || sessionId === "") return false;
--  if (roster.ready) return roster.agentOf[sessionId] !== void 0;
--  return cache.has(sessionId);
++}
 +function roomAvatarPeople(room2, roster) {
 +  const members = (room2?.members ?? []).map((id) => roster?.byId?.[id]).filter(Boolean);
 +  const seen = new Set(members.map((bot) => bot.id));
@@ -1114,13 +1224,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +  }
 +  if (members.length === 1 && remotes.length === 0) return [members[0], null];
 +  return [...members, ...remotes];
- }
--function countCards(state, sessionId, callIds, delta) {
--  const own = { ...state[sessionId] };
--  for (const callId of callIds) {
--    const count = (own[callId] ?? 0) + delta;
--    if (count > 0) own[callId] = count;
--    else delete own[callId];
++}
 +function RoomAvatar({ room: room2, roster, size = 36 }) {
 +  const people = roomAvatarPeople(room2, roster);
 +  const seat = (bot, seatSize, key) => bot ? (0, import_react.createElement)(BotMark, { key, bot, size: seatSize }) : (0, import_react.createElement)("span", { key, className: "bt-cluster-you", style: { width: seatSize * 0.92, height: seatSize * 0.92, margin: seatSize * 0.04 } });
@@ -1132,8 +1236,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      people.slice(0, 3).map((bot, index) => seat(bot, size, bot?.id ?? `you-${index}`)),
 +      people.length > 3 ? (0, import_react.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-stack-more" }, `+${people.length - 3}`) : null
 +    );
-   }
--  return { ...state, [sessionId]: own };
++  }
 +  const seats = clusterSeats(Math.min(people.length, 4), size);
 +  const overflow = people.length > 4 ? people.length - 3 : 0;
 +  const gap = size / 14;
@@ -1152,30 +1255,8 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      return (0, import_react.createElement)("span", { key: bot?.id ?? "you", style }, seat(bot, s));
 +    })
 +  );
- }
- 
--// src/client/themes.js
--var THEME_KEYS = ["bg", "sidebar", "bubble", "card", "text", "user", "userText", "accent"];
--var THEMES = {
--  deepseek: {
--    label: "DeepSeek",
--    light: { bg: "#fcfcfc", sidebar: "#f7f7f7", bubble: "#eeeeee", card: "#ffffff", text: "#141414", user: "#070707", userText: "#fcfcfc", accent: "#4d6bfe" },
--    dark: { bg: "#141414", sidebar: "#1b1b1b", bubble: "#262626", card: "#1f1f1f", text: "#f2f2f2", user: "#f2f2f2", userText: "#141414", accent: "#5b7bff" }
--  },
--  mono: {
--    label: "Mono",
--    light: { bg: "#ffffff", sidebar: "#f9f9f9", bubble: "#f0f0f0", card: "#ffffff", text: "#0d0d0d", user: "#0d0d0d", userText: "#ffffff", accent: "#0d0d0d" },
--    dark: { bg: "#0f0f0f", sidebar: "#171717", bubble: "#242424", card: "#1c1c1c", text: "#f4f4f4", user: "#f4f4f4", userText: "#0f0f0f", accent: "#f4f4f4" }
--  },
--  paper: {
--    label: "Paper",
--    light: { bg: "#faf9f5", sidebar: "#f3f0e8", bubble: "#ebe7dc", card: "#ffffff", text: "#1f1e1b", user: "#2b2a26", userText: "#faf9f5", accent: "#d97757" },
--    dark: { bg: "#1f1e1b", sidebar: "#262521", bubble: "#34322d", card: "#2a2925", text: "#f3f0e8", user: "#f3f0e8", userText: "#1f1e1b", accent: "#e08a6d" }
--  },
--  moonlight: {
--    label: "Moonlight",
--    light: { bg: "#f7f9fc", sidebar: "#eef2f8", bubble: "#e5ebf5", card: "#ffffff", text: "#121826", user: "#1e3a8a", userText: "#ffffff", accent: "#1e86ff" },
--    dark: { bg: "#0b1020", sidebar: "#10172a", bubble: "#1a2340", card: "#141c33", text: "#e8edf7", user: "#3b6fd8", userText: "#ffffff", accent: "#4f9dff" }
++}
++
 +// src/client/flybot-slots.js
 +var import_react2 = require("react");
 +var call2 = (endpoint, payload) => call(`flybot/${endpoint}`, payload);
@@ -1207,81 +1288,14 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +  }
 +  render() {
 +    return this.state.failed ? this.props.fallback ?? null : this.props.children;
-   }
- };
--var rgba = (hex, alpha) => `rgba(${[1, 3, 5].map((index) => parseInt(hex.slice(index, index + 2), 16)).join(",")},${alpha})`;
--function themeVars(mode, dark, accent = mode.accent) {
--  return {
--    "--bt-ink": mode.text,
--    "--bt-ink-2": rgba(mode.text, 0.6),
--    "--bt-ink-3": rgba(mode.text, 0.36),
--    "--bt-bubble": mode.bubble,
--    "--bt-sidebar": mode.sidebar,
--    "--bt-main": mode.bg,
--    "--bt-card": mode.card,
--    "--bt-line": rgba(mode.text, 0.08),
--    "--bt-line-2": rgba(mode.text, 0.15),
--    "--bt-hover": dark ? "rgba(160,160,160,.12)" : "rgba(119,119,119,.09)",
--    "--bt-active": dark ? "rgba(160,160,160,.2)" : "rgba(119,119,119,.17)",
--    "--bt-accent": accent,
--    "--bt-accent-ink": luminance(accent) > 0.45 ? "#141414" : "#ffffff",
--    "--bt-user": mode.user,
--    "--bt-user-ink": mode.userText,
--    "--bt-tag-bg": rgba(mode.text, dark ? 0.09 : 0.06),
--    "--bt-tag-ink": rgba(mode.text, 0.58)
--  };
++  }
++};
 +function SlotIcon({ id, icon: icon2, fallback }) {
 +  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(SlotBoundary, { id, fallback }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(icon2));
- }
--var declarations = (vars) => Object.entries(vars).map(([name, value]) => `${name}:${value}`).join(";");
--var themeCss = (theme, accent) => `html body{${declarations(themeVars(theme.light, false, accent ?? theme.light.accent))}}
--html body[data-ds-dark-theme]{${declarations(themeVars(theme.dark, true, accent ?? theme.dark.accent))}}
--${theme.css ?? ""}`;
--var shellTokens = ({ light, dark }) => ({
--  "--dsw-alias-bg-base": { light: light.bg, dark: dark.bg },
--  "--dsw-specific-sidebar-fill": { light: light.sidebar, dark: dark.sidebar },
--  "--dsw-specific-input-major": { light: light.bg, dark: dark.sidebar },
--  "--dsw-alias-label-primary": { light: light.text, dark: dark.text },
--  "--dsw-alias-label-secondary": { light: rgba(light.text, 0.74), dark: rgba(dark.text, 0.74) },
--  "--dsw-alias-label-tertiary": { light: rgba(light.text, 0.6), dark: rgba(dark.text, 0.6) }
--});
--var customThemes = {};
--var registry = createSource(0);
--var isPoint = (point) => Array.isArray(point) && point.length === 2 && point.every(Number.isFinite);
--function registerShape(id, shape) {
--  if (typeof id !== "string" || !/^[a-z][\w-]{0,31}$/.test(id)) throw new Error("Shape ids are lowercase words");
--  if (typeof shape?.body !== "function" || typeof shape.body("#000") !== "string") throw new Error("A shape needs body(paint) returning SVG markup");
--  const at = shape.eyes?.at;
--  if (!Array.isArray(at) || at.length !== 2 || !at.every(isPoint)) throw new Error("A shape needs eyes.at: two [x, y] points");
--  const size = Number.isFinite(shape.size) && shape.size > 0 ? shape.size : 100;
--  const pick2 = (key, fallback) => Number.isFinite(shape.eyes[key]) ? shape.eyes[key] : fallback;
--  const eyes = at.map(([x, y]) => [x, y, pick2("w", size * 0.1), pick2("h", size * 0.23), pick2("tilt", -27)]);
--  const previous = SHAPES[id];
--  SHAPES[id] = {
--    label: String(shape.label ?? id),
--    size,
--    body: shape.body,
--    eyes,
--    ...typeof shape.wrap === "string" ? { wrap: shape.wrap } : {}
--  };
--  const refresh = () => {
--    markupCache.clear();
--    maskCache.delete(id);
--    registry.set((value) => value + 1);
--  };
--  refresh();
--  return () => {
--    if (previous) SHAPES[id] = previous;
--    else delete SHAPES[id];
--    refresh();
--  };
++}
 +function Safe({ entry, props }) {
 +  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(SlotBoundary, { id: entry.id }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(entry.component, props));
- }
--function registerTheme(id, theme) {
--  if (typeof id !== "string" || !/^[a-z][\w-]{0,31}$/.test(id)) throw new Error("Theme ids are lowercase words");
--  for (const mode of ["light", "dark"]) {
--    for (const key of THEME_KEYS) if (!isHex(theme?.[mode]?.[key])) throw new Error(`Theme ${mode}.${key} must be a #rrggbb color`);
++}
 +function useSettingsPages() {
 +  return useSlot("flybot.settings.page");
 +}
@@ -1387,14 +1401,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    const owner = bot.remote.owner || bot.remote.homeName;
 +    if (owner) return `${bot.name} (${owner})`;
 +    return bot.name;
-   }
--  const previous = customThemes[id];
--  customThemes[id] = { label: String(theme.label ?? id), light: theme.light, dark: theme.dark, css: typeof theme.css === "string" ? theme.css : "" };
--  registry.set((value) => value + 1);
--  return () => {
--    if (previous) customThemes[id] = previous;
--    else delete customThemes[id];
--    registry.set((value) => value + 1);
++  }
 +  return approval.targetName ?? handle ?? String(approval.request?.to ?? "");
 +}
 +function FlyBotApprovals({ useRoster, actions } = {}) {
@@ -1964,7 +1971,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
  @keyframes bt-q-ride{0%,55%,100%{transform:translateY(0)}20%{transform:translateY(calc(var(--bt-size,36px) * -.14))}40%{transform:translateY(0)}}
  /* Petting: with the pointer on a sidebar avatar or just around it (a ring a fifth of its
     size wide), a resting mark leans into the pointer and keeps nuzzling it, its eyes
-@@ -1933,7 +1933,14 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
+@@ -1933,15 +1933,23 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
  .bt-side{display:flex;flex-direction:column;min-height:0;flex:1 1 auto;gap:2px;padding:0 12px 8px 0;color:var(--bt-ink);font-family:-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,"Segoe UI",system-ui,sans-serif}
  .bt-side-top{display:flex;justify-content:flex-end;align-items:center;gap:8px;padding:6px 5px 0 0}
  .bt-brand{display:inline-flex;align-items:center;gap:6px;margin-right:auto;padding:4px 8px 4px 4px;border:0;border-radius:8px;background:none;cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;font-size:15px;line-height:20px;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:-.01em;color:var(--bt-ink);white-space:nowrap}
@@ -1980,6 +1987,16 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
  .bt-round{width:36px;height:36px;border-radius:50%;border:1px solid var(--bt-line);background:var(--bt-main);color:var(--bt-ink);display:inline-flex;align-items:center;justify-content:center;cursor:pointer;padding:0;transition:background-color .12s ease,transform .12s ease}
  .bt-round:hover{background:var(--bt-hover)}
  .bt-round:active{transform:scale(.94)}
+ .bt-list{display:flex;flex-direction:column;gap:3px;overflow-y:auto;min-height:0;flex:1 1 auto}
+ .bt-tile-wrap{display:flex;justify-content:center;padding:20px 0 15px}
+-.bt-tile{display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
++.bt-tile{position:relative;display:flex;flex-direction:column;align-items:center;gap:4px;width:95px;padding:6px 8px 4px;border-radius:12px;border:0;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);cursor:pointer;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
+ .bt-tile:hover{background:var(--bt-hover)}
+ .bt-tile[aria-current=page]{background:var(--bt-active)}
++.bt-tile-unread{position:absolute;top:8px;right:12px}
+ .bt-tile-name{font-size:13px;line-height:18px;font-weight:400;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;white-space:nowrap}
+ .bt-chip{font-size:11px;line-height:16px;padding:1px 4px;border-radius:4px;background:var(--bt-hover);border:1px solid var(--bt-line);color:var(--bt-ink-2);white-space:nowrap;max-width:84px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis}
+ .bt-row{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:8px;min-height:54px;padding:8px;border:0;border-radius:10px;background:transparent;color:var(--bt-ink);text-align:left;cursor:pointer;width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;font-family:inherit;transition:background-color .12s ease}
 @@ -1950,21 +1950,24 @@ body[data-bt-motion=quiet] .bt-mark[data-poke]{cursor:default}
  .bt-row-body{display:flex;flex-direction:column;min-width:0;flex:1 1 auto}
  .bt-row-name{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:6px;min-width:0;font-size:14px;line-height:20px;font-weight:400}
@@ -2123,10 +2140,18 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
  body[data-bt-room] [data-composer-card]:has(button[class*="_primary"]:disabled) .bt-mic:not([aria-pressed=true]){background:var(--bt-accent);color:var(--bt-accent-ink,#fff)}
  .bt-mic-note{position:absolute;right:12px;bottom:calc(100% + 8px);padding:5px 10px;border-radius:8px;background:var(--bt-user);color:var(--bt-user-ink);font-size:12px;line-height:16px;white-space:nowrap;pointer-events:none;animation:bt-rise .16s ease-out}
  [data-chain-overlay-fallback="conversation.composer"]:has(~ .bt-q){display:block!important;order:2}
-@@ -2804,277 +2804,259 @@ function sheetClassNames(sheet) {
-   try {
-     visit(sheet.cssRules);
-   } catch {
+@@ -2796,285 +2796,267 @@ var CLASS_TOKEN = /\.((?:\\.|[\w-])+)/g;
+ function sheetClassNames(sheet) {
+   const names = [];
+   const visit = (rules) => {
+-    for (const rule of rules) {
+-      if (rule.selectorText) for (const match of rule.selectorText.matchAll(CLASS_TOKEN)) names.push(match[1]);
+-      if (rule.cssRules) visit(rule.cssRules);
+-    }
+-  };
+-  try {
+-    visit(sheet.cssRules);
+-  } catch {
 -  }
 -  return names;
 -}
@@ -2254,25 +2279,23 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 -}
 -function AdminStar() {
 -  return (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-admin-star", role: "img", "aria-label": t("Admin") }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(StarIcon, { size: 7 }));
--}
++    for (const rule of rules) {
++      if (rule.selectorText) for (const match of rule.selectorText.matchAll(CLASS_TOKEN)) names.push(match[1]);
++      if (rule.cssRules) visit(rule.cssRules);
++    }
++  };
++  try {
++    visit(sheet.cssRules);
++  } catch {
++  }
++  return names;
+ }
 -function MainStar() {
 -  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
 -    "svg",
 -    { viewBox: "0 0 20 20", "aria-hidden": true },
 -    (0, import_react2.createElement)("path", { d: "M10 2.4l2.29 5.04 5.51.63-4.09 3.74 1.11 5.42L10 14.5l-4.82 2.73 1.11-5.42L2.2 8.07l5.51-.63z" })
 -  );
-+  }
-+  return names;
- }
--function useSettled(state) {
--  const prev = (0, import_react2.useRef)(state);
--  const [settled, setSettled] = (0, import_react2.useState)(false);
--  (0, import_react2.useEffect)(() => {
--    const was = prev.current;
--    prev.current = state;
--    if (state !== "idle") {
--      setSettled(false);
--      return void 0;
 +function compileFragmentSelectors(text, names) {
 +  const compiled = /* @__PURE__ */ new Map();
 +  return text.replace(FRAGMENT_SELECTOR, (whole, fragment) => {
@@ -2280,29 +2303,19 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      const exact = [];
 +      for (const name of names) if (name.includes(fragment)) exact.push(`.${name}`);
 +      compiled.set(fragment, exact.length ? `:is(${exact.join(",")})` : whole);
-     }
--    if (was === "idle" || was === "alert") return void 0;
--    setSettled(true);
--    const timer = setTimeout(() => setSettled(false), 1800);
--    return () => clearTimeout(timer);
--  }, [state]);
--  return settled;
++    }
 +    return compiled.get(fragment);
 +  });
  }
--function BotAvatar({ bot, size, state = "idle", main, admin, badge = true, live = true, gaze = false, pokeable = false }) {
--  const settled = useSettled(state);
--  if (bot === void 0) return (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { size });
--  const badgeKind = !badge ? null : state === "alert" ? "alert" : state !== "idle" ? "working" : admin ? "admin" : main ? "main" : null;
--  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
--    "span",
--    { className: "bt-mark", style: { width: size, height: size, "--bt-size": `${size}px` } },
--    (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size, state: settled ? "done" : state, live, gaze, pokeable }),
--    badgeKind === "working" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-working", "aria-label": t("Working"), role: "img" }) : null,
--    badgeKind === "alert" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-alert", "aria-label": t("Waiting for your answer"), role: "img" }, "?") : null,
--    badgeKind === "admin" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-admin", "aria-label": t("Admin"), role: "img" }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(StarIcon)) : null,
--    badgeKind === "main" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-main", "aria-label": t("Main Bot"), role: "img" }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(MainStar)) : null
--  );
+-function useSettled(state) {
+-  const prev = (0, import_react2.useRef)(state);
+-  const [settled, setSettled] = (0, import_react2.useState)(false);
+-  (0, import_react2.useEffect)(() => {
+-    const was = prev.current;
+-    prev.current = state;
+-    if (state !== "idle") {
+-      setSettled(false);
+-      return void 0;
 +function installCompiledStyles(text, tag) {
 +  const style = installStyles("", tag);
 +  const cache = /* @__PURE__ */ new WeakMap();
@@ -2316,7 +2329,13 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +        cache.set(sheet, list);
 +      }
 +      for (const name of list) names.add(name);
-+    }
+     }
+-    if (was === "idle" || was === "alert") return void 0;
+-    setSettled(true);
+-    const timer = setTimeout(() => setSettled(false), 1800);
+-    return () => clearTimeout(timer);
+-  }, [state]);
+-  return settled;
 +    const next = compileFragmentSelectors(text, names);
 +    if (style.textContent !== next) style.textContent = next;
 +  };
@@ -2339,13 +2358,19 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    style.remove();
 +  };
  }
--function clusterSeats(count, frame) {
--  if (count === 1) return [[0, 0, frame]];
--  if (count === 2) return [[0, 0, frame * 2 / 3], [frame / 3, frame / 3, frame * 2 / 3]];
--  if (count === 3) {
--    const size = frame * 5 / 9;
--    const rest = frame - size;
--    return [[rest / 2, 0, size], [0, rest, size], [rest, rest, size]];
+-function BotAvatar({ bot, size, state = "idle", main, admin, badge = true, live = true, gaze = false, pokeable = false }) {
+-  const settled = useSettled(state);
+-  if (bot === void 0) return (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { size });
+-  const badgeKind = !badge ? null : state === "alert" ? "alert" : state !== "idle" ? "working" : admin ? "admin" : main ? "main" : null;
+-  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
+-    "span",
+-    { className: "bt-mark", style: { width: size, height: size, "--bt-size": `${size}px` } },
+-    (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size, state: settled ? "done" : state, live, gaze, pokeable }),
+-    badgeKind === "working" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-working", "aria-label": t("Working"), role: "img" }) : null,
+-    badgeKind === "alert" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-alert", "aria-label": t("Waiting for your answer"), role: "img" }, "?") : null,
+-    badgeKind === "admin" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-admin", "aria-label": t("Admin"), role: "img" }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(StarIcon)) : null,
+-    badgeKind === "main" ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-badge bt-badge-main", "aria-label": t("Main Bot"), role: "img" }, (0, import_react2.createElement)(MainStar)) : null
+-  );
 +
 +// src/shared/face-title.js
 +var MONTHS = ["Jan", "Feb", "Mar", "Apr", "May", "Jun", "Jul", "Aug", "Sep", "Oct", "Nov", "Dec"];
@@ -2374,24 +2399,17 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    seen.add(key);
 +    const handle = String(member?.handle ?? member?.id ?? "").trim().toLowerCase();
 +    rows.push({ owner, sort: handle || key });
-   }
--  const half = frame / 2;
--  return [[0, 0, half], [half, 0, half], [0, half, half], [half, half, half]];
++  }
 +  rows.sort((a, b) => a.sort.localeCompare(b.sort));
 +  return rows.slice(0, 3).map((row) => row.owner);
  }
--function RoomAvatar({ room: room2, roster, size = 36 }) {
--  const members = room2.members.map((id) => roster.byId[id]).filter(Boolean);
--  const people = members.length === 1 ? [members[0], null] : members;
--  const seat = (bot, seatSize, key) => bot ? (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { key, bot, size: seatSize }) : (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { key, className: "bt-cluster-you", style: { width: seatSize * 0.92, height: seatSize * 0.92, margin: seatSize * 0.04 } });
--  if (people.length === 0) return (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { size });
--  if (size <= 20 && people.length > 1) {
--    return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
--      "span",
--      { className: "bt-stack", style: { "--bt-stack-size": `${size}px` } },
--      people.slice(0, 3).map((bot, index) => seat(bot, size, bot?.id ?? `you-${index}`)),
--      people.length > 3 ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-stack-more" }, `+${people.length - 3}`) : null
--    );
+-function clusterSeats(count, frame) {
+-  if (count === 1) return [[0, 0, frame]];
+-  if (count === 2) return [[0, 0, frame * 2 / 3], [frame / 3, frame / 3, frame * 2 / 3]];
+-  if (count === 3) {
+-    const size = frame * 5 / 9;
+-    const rest = frame - size;
+-    return [[rest / 2, 0, size], [0, rest, size], [rest, rest, size]];
 +function uniqueOwners(owners) {
 +  const seen = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
 +  const out = [];
@@ -2402,24 +2420,8 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    seen.add(key);
 +    out.push(owner);
    }
--  const seats = clusterSeats(Math.min(people.length, 4), size);
--  const overflow = people.length > 4 ? people.length - 3 : 0;
--  const gap = size / 14;
--  const rings = seats.map(([x, y, s]) => ({ cx: x + s / 2, cy: y + s / 2, r: s * 0.48 + gap }));
--  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
--    "span",
--    { className: "bt-cluster", style: { width: size, height: size } },
--    seats.map(([x, y, s], index) => {
--      const holes2 = rings.slice(index + 1).filter((ring) => Math.hypot(ring.cx - x - s / 2, ring.cy - y - s / 2) < ring.r + s * 0.46).map((ring) => `radial-gradient(circle at ${ring.cx - x}px ${ring.cy - y}px,transparent ${ring.r}px,#000 ${ring.r + 0.5}px)`);
--      const style = { left: x, top: y, width: s, height: s };
--      if (holes2.length > 0) Object.assign(style, { WebkitMaskImage: holes2.join(","), maskImage: holes2.join(","), WebkitMaskComposite: "source-in", maskComposite: "intersect" });
--      if (overflow > 0 && index === 3) {
--        return (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { key: "more", className: "bt-cluster-more", style: { ...style, width: s * 0.92, height: s * 0.92, margin: s * 0.04, fontSize: Math.max(8, Math.round(s * 0.36)) } }, `+${overflow}`);
--      }
--      const bot = people[index];
--      return (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { key: bot?.id ?? "you", style }, seat(bot, s));
--    })
--  );
+-  const half = frame / 2;
+-  return [[0, 0, half], [half, 0, half], [0, half, half], [half, half, half]];
 +  out.sort((a, b) => a.toLowerCase().localeCompare(b.toLowerCase()));
 +  return out.slice(0, 3);
 +}
@@ -2443,7 +2445,19 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +  if (people.length) bits.push(people.join(", "));
 +  bits.push(join.length === 6 ? join : when3);
 +  return bits.join(" · ");
-+}
+ }
+-function RoomAvatar({ room: room2, roster, size = 36 }) {
+-  const members = room2.members.map((id) => roster.byId[id]).filter(Boolean);
+-  const people = members.length === 1 ? [members[0], null] : members;
+-  const seat = (bot, seatSize, key) => bot ? (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { key, bot, size: seatSize }) : (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { key, className: "bt-cluster-you", style: { width: seatSize * 0.92, height: seatSize * 0.92, margin: seatSize * 0.04 } });
+-  if (people.length === 0) return (0, import_react2.createElement)(BotMark, { size });
+-  if (size <= 20 && people.length > 1) {
+-    return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
+-      "span",
+-      { className: "bt-stack", style: { "--bt-stack-size": `${size}px` } },
+-      people.slice(0, 3).map((bot, index) => seat(bot, size, bot?.id ?? `you-${index}`)),
+-      people.length > 3 ? (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-stack-more" }, `+${people.length - 3}`) : null
+-    );
 +
 +// src/client/brand.js
 +var FLYBOT_WING = "M150 238 C 96 200, 40 196, 22 214 C 8 230, 40 262, 150 300 Z";
@@ -2470,7 +2484,25 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      handle: bot.remote.handle,
 +      isChief: bot.remote.isChief
 +    });
-+  }
+   }
+-  const seats = clusterSeats(Math.min(people.length, 4), size);
+-  const overflow = people.length > 4 ? people.length - 3 : 0;
+-  const gap = size / 14;
+-  const rings = seats.map(([x, y, s]) => ({ cx: x + s / 2, cy: y + s / 2, r: s * 0.48 + gap }));
+-  return (0, import_react2.createElement)(
+-    "span",
+-    { className: "bt-cluster", style: { width: size, height: size } },
+-    seats.map(([x, y, s], index) => {
+-      const holes2 = rings.slice(index + 1).filter((ring) => Math.hypot(ring.cx - x - s / 2, ring.cy - y - s / 2) < ring.r + s * 0.46).map((ring) => `radial-gradient(circle at ${ring.cx - x}px ${ring.cy - y}px,transparent ${ring.r}px,#000 ${ring.r + 0.5}px)`);
+-      const style = { left: x, top: y, width: s, height: s };
+-      if (holes2.length > 0) Object.assign(style, { WebkitMaskImage: holes2.join(","), maskImage: holes2.join(","), WebkitMaskComposite: "source-in", maskComposite: "intersect" });
+-      if (overflow > 0 && index === 3) {
+-        return (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { key: "more", className: "bt-cluster-more", style: { ...style, width: s * 0.92, height: s * 0.92, margin: s * 0.04, fontSize: Math.max(8, Math.round(s * 0.36)) } }, `+${overflow}`);
+-      }
+-      const bot = people[index];
+-      return (0, import_react2.createElement)("span", { key: bot?.id ?? "you", style }, seat(bot, s));
+-    })
+-  );
 +  if (room2 && room2.origin === "face-to-face" && (room2.face?.status === "closed" || room2.face?.status === "left") && isAutoFaceTitle(room2.name)) return "Face-to-face · closed";
 +  if (room2) return room2.displayName || (room2.sharedFrom ? sharedRoomTitle(room2.sharedFrom.inviterName) : room2.name) || "";
 +  return bot?.name || "";
@@ -3468,7 +3500,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
          key: relay.seq,
          prefix: source.role === "stopped" ? t("Stopped by") : source.role === "reply" ? t("Reply from") : t("Message from"),
          bots: [sender],
-@@ -3940,61 +3940,198 @@ function AssistantCell({ node, groupPart, sessionId, openFile, fileMentions, use
+@@ -3940,61 +3940,204 @@ function AssistantCell({ node, groupPart, sessionId, openFile, fileMentions, use
          whole: true
        });
      }),
@@ -3491,28 +3523,37 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
    if (whole && bots.length === 1) {
 -    return (0, import_react6.createElement)(
 +    return (0, import_react7.createElement)(
-+      "div",
-+      { className: "bt-event" },
+       "div",
+       { className: "bt-event" },
+-      (0, import_react6.createElement)(
 +      (0, import_react7.createElement)(
-+        "button",
-+        { type: "button", className: "bt-event-whole", title: bots[0].name, onClick: () => onOpen?.(bots[0]) },
+         "button",
+         { type: "button", className: "bt-event-whole", title: bots[0].name, onClick: () => onOpen?.(bots[0]) },
+-        (0, import_react6.createElement)("span", null, prefix),
+-        (0, import_react6.createElement)(BotMark, { bot: bots[0], size: 16 }),
+-        (0, import_react6.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-event-name" }, bots[0].name)
 +        (0, import_react7.createElement)("span", null, prefix),
 +        (0, import_react7.createElement)(BotMark, { bot: bots[0], size: 16 }),
 +        (0, import_react7.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-event-name" }, bots[0].name)
-+      )
-+    );
-+  }
-+  const parts = [];
+       )
+     );
+   }
+   const parts = [];
+-  parts.push((0, import_react6.createElement)("span", { key: "p" }, prefix));
 +  parts.push((0, import_react7.createElement)("span", { key: "p" }, prefix));
-+  bots.forEach((bot, index) => {
+   bots.forEach((bot, index) => {
+-    if (index > 0) parts.push((0, import_react6.createElement)("span", { key: `j${index}` }, joiner));
+-    parts.push((0, import_react6.createElement)(
 +    if (index > 0) parts.push((0, import_react7.createElement)("span", { key: `j${index}` }, joiner));
 +    parts.push((0, import_react7.createElement)(
-+      "button",
-+      { key: bot.id ?? index, type: "button", onClick: () => onOpen?.(bot) },
+       "button",
+       { key: bot.id ?? index, type: "button", onClick: () => onOpen?.(bot) },
+-      (0, import_react6.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 16 }),
 +      (0, import_react7.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 16 }),
-+      bot.name
-+    ));
-+  });
+       bot.name
+     ));
+   });
+-  return (0, import_react6.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-event" }, parts);
 +  return (0, import_react7.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-event" }, parts);
 +}
 +var heldForm = (text) => String(text ?? "").replace(/\s+/g, " ").trim().replace(/^(to (the )?face[ -]?room|to the room)\s*:\s*/i, "").trim();
@@ -3527,13 +3568,16 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    const held = heldForm(item.text);
 +    return held !== "" && (held === line || held.length >= 799 && line.startsWith(held));
 +  });
-+}
-+function GroupMessage({ bot, text, room: room2, roster, actions, msgKey, useUi }) {
+ }
+ function GroupMessage({ bot, text, room: room2, roster, actions, msgKey, useUi }) {
+-  const lead = (0, import_react6.createElement)(
 +  const lead = (0, import_react7.createElement)(
-+    "button",
-+    { type: "button", className: "bt-lead", "aria-label": t("Open {name}'s chat", { name: bot.name }), onClick: () => actions.openSession(bot.id) },
+     "button",
+     { type: "button", className: "bt-lead", "aria-label": t("Open {name}'s chat", { name: bot.name }), onClick: () => actions.openSession(bot.id) },
+-    (0, import_react6.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 22 })
 +    (0, import_react7.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 22 })
-+  );
+   );
+-  return (0, import_react6.createElement)(
 +  const name = (0, import_react7.createElement)(
 +    "span",
 +    { className: "bt-group-name", style: { color: inkText(colorOf(bot)) } },
@@ -3594,15 +3638,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +  const person = typeof source.remote.typedBy === "string" ? source.remote.typedBy : "";
 +  if (person) {
 +    return (0, import_react7.createElement)(
-       "div",
--      { className: "bt-event" },
--      (0, import_react6.createElement)(
--        "button",
--        { type: "button", className: "bt-event-whole", title: bots[0].name, onClick: () => onOpen?.(bots[0]) },
--        (0, import_react6.createElement)("span", null, prefix),
--        (0, import_react6.createElement)(BotMark, { bot: bots[0], size: 16 }),
--        (0, import_react6.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-event-name" }, bots[0].name)
--      )
++      "div",
 +      { className: "bt-group-msg bt-person-msg bt-remote-msg", "data-person": person, "data-remote": handle },
 +      // One short header: the person, and the Bot that carried the line only when it is known (#275).
 +      (0, import_react7.createElement)(
@@ -3613,28 +3649,8 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      ),
 +      (0, import_react7.createElement)(Bubbles, { texts: [stripTrace(text)], roster, selfId: bot.id, actions, sessionId, msgKey, useUi, lead: (0, import_react7.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-lead", title: person }, (0, import_react7.createElement)(PersonMark)) }),
 +      files.length ? (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteFiles, { files, plugin: member?.plugin ?? "social", botId: roster.byId[sessionId]?.id ?? sessionId }) : null
-     );
-   }
--  const parts = [];
--  parts.push((0, import_react6.createElement)("span", { key: "p" }, prefix));
--  bots.forEach((bot, index) => {
--    if (index > 0) parts.push((0, import_react6.createElement)("span", { key: `j${index}` }, joiner));
--    parts.push((0, import_react6.createElement)(
--      "button",
--      { key: bot.id ?? index, type: "button", onClick: () => onOpen?.(bot) },
--      (0, import_react6.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 16 }),
--      bot.name
--    ));
--  });
--  return (0, import_react6.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-event" }, parts);
--}
--function GroupMessage({ bot, text, room: room2, roster, actions, msgKey, useUi }) {
--  const lead = (0, import_react6.createElement)(
--    "button",
--    { type: "button", className: "bt-lead", "aria-label": t("Open {name}'s chat", { name: bot.name }), onClick: () => actions.openSession(bot.id) },
--    (0, import_react6.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 22 })
--  );
--  return (0, import_react6.createElement)(
++    );
++  }
 +  const mark = (0, import_react7.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 22 });
 +  const lead = chatId ? (0, import_react7.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-lead", title: handle, "aria-label": t("Open {name}'s chat", { name }), onClick: () => actions.openSession(chatId) }, mark) : (0, import_react7.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-lead", title: handle }, mark);
 +  return (0, import_react7.createElement)(
@@ -3655,6 +3671,12 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    files.length ? (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteFiles, { files, plugin: member?.plugin ?? "social", botId: roster.byId[sessionId]?.id ?? sessionId }) : null
 +  );
 +}
++function FirstContact({ source, roster, sessionId }) {
++  const person = typeof source.remote.typedBy === "string" ? source.remote.typedBy : "";
++  const who = person || remoteSpeaker(source, roster).name;
++  const bot = roster.byId[sessionId]?.name ?? t("your Bot");
++  return (0, import_react7.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-event", "data-first-contact": source.remote.handle }, (0, import_react7.createElement)("span", null, t("{name} is talking to {bot} through Bot Social", { name: who, bot })));
++}
 +function GlobeMark() {
 +  return (0, import_react7.createElement)(
 +    "svg",
@@ -3829,7 +3851,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
      if (relayed) actions.noteTurnPeer(sessionId, turn, source.senderSessionId);
    }, [relayed, sessionId, turn, source.senderSessionId]);
    const order = useSessions((list) => {
-@@ -4135,23 +4135,29 @@ function TriggerCell({ node, sessionId, useRoster, useSessions, useTurnClock, us
+@@ -4135,23 +4135,30 @@ function TriggerCell({ node, sessionId, useRoster, useSessions, useTurnClock, us
      return first?.turn === turn && unseenSince(visit, first.start) ? clockLabel(first.start) : "";
    });
    const body = triggerBody();
@@ -3838,7 +3860,8 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
    function triggerBody() {
 +    if (source.form === "remote-chat") return null;
 +    if (source.remote?.handle) {
-+      return (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi });
++      const message = (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteMessage, { source, text: remoteMessageText(stripHeader(contentText(data.content))), roster, actions, sessionId, msgKey: `${sessionId}:${data.turn}:remote`, useUi });
++      return source.remote.firstContact === true ? (0, import_react7.createElement)(import_react7.Fragment, null, (0, import_react7.createElement)(FirstContact, { source, roster, sessionId }), message) : message;
 +    }
      if (source.kind === "bot") {
 -      if (source.handoff === true) return roster.roomsById[sessionId] ? null : (0, import_react6.createElement)(EarlierParts, { sessionId, roster, actions });
@@ -4069,7 +4092,8 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +      if (reply.kind === "notice" && room2?.origin === "face-to-face" && String(reply.text ?? "").trim() === WAITING_OTHERS_NOTICE) return null;
 +      if (reply.kind === "notice" || reply.kind === "joined" || reply.kind === "left" || reply.kind === "started") {
 +        return (0, import_react7.createElement)("div", { key: `notice-${index}`, className: "bt-event", "data-flybot": "face-notice" }, remoteMessageText(reply.text));
-+      }
+       }
+-      return (0, import_react6.createElement)(GroupMessage, { key: `${reply.botId}-${index}`, bot, text: reply.text, room: room2, roster, actions, msgKey: callId ? `${sessionId}:${callId}:${index}` : void 0, useUi });
 +      const remote = reply.remote || reply.handle && !roster.byId[reply.botId];
 +      if (remote) {
 +        return (0, import_react7.createElement)(RemoteMessage, {
@@ -4082,8 +4106,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +          msgKey: callId ? `${sessionId}:${callId}:${index}` : void 0,
 +          useUi
 +        });
-       }
--      return (0, import_react6.createElement)(GroupMessage, { key: `${reply.botId}-${index}`, bot, text: reply.text, room: room2, roster, actions, msgKey: callId ? `${sessionId}:${callId}:${index}` : void 0, useUi });
++      }
 +      return (0, import_react7.createElement)(GroupMessage, { key: `${reply.botId}-${index}`, bot, text: reply.text, room: room2, roster, actions, msgKey: callId ? `${sessionId}:${callId}:${index}` : void 0, useUi });
      }),
      pending.map((id) => {
@@ -4429,7 +4452,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
        "button",
        {
          type: "button",
-@@ -4785,12 +4785,13 @@ function BotRow({ bot, roster, actions, useSessions, useSessionStatus, useSessio
+@@ -4785,12 +4785,15 @@ function BotRow({ bot, roster, actions, useSessions, useSessionStatus, useSessio
          onClick: () => actions.openSession(id),
          onContextMenu
        },
@@ -4438,6 +4461,8 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 -      bot.role ? (0, import_react8.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-chip" }, bot.role) : null
 +      (0, import_react9.createElement)(BotAvatar, { bot, size: 60, state, main: true }),
 +      (0, import_react9.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-tile-name" }, shown),
++      // The Main Bot's tile gets the same unread dot as a row (#420); a wait shows on its avatar.
++      unread && !waiting && !active ? (0, import_react9.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-unread bt-tile-unread", "aria-hidden": true }) : null,
 +      bot.role ? (0, import_react9.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-chip" }, bot.role) : null
      ));
    }
@@ -5638,10 +5663,14 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
      },
      onPick: ({ candidate }) => candidate.value ? { text: candidate.value } : void 0
    };
-@@ -5995,6 +5995,83 @@ function atSources({ roster, sessions, launched, iconFor }) {
-   return [bots, chats];
- }
- 
+@@ -5992,7 +5992,84 @@ function atSources({ roster, sessions, launched, iconFor }) {
+     },
+     codec: { clipboardText: (ref) => ref, serialize: (ref) => Promise.resolve(ref) }
+   };
+-  return [bots, chats];
++  return [bots, chats];
++}
++
 +// src/client/face-at-filter.js
 +var REFERENCE_SOURCE = "reference";
 +var optionId = (source, index) => `dsh-slash-option-${source}-${index}`;
@@ -5717,11 +5746,9 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +    unsubscribe?.();
 +    style.remove();
 +  };
-+}
-+
+ }
+ 
  // src/client/speech.js
- var VOICE_BUNDLE = "@deepseek-ai/dsh-experimental-voice-input-bundle";
- var USABLE = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set(["ready", "standby", "waking"]);
 @@ -6122,15 +6122,15 @@ function turnDetector({ loud = 0.12, quiet = 0.06, quietMs = 1200 } = {}) {
  }
  
@@ -8788,7 +8815,10 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +          (0, import_react25.createElement)(BotMark, { bot, size: 22 }),
 +          (0, import_react25.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-set-copy" }, (0, import_react25.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-bs-label" }, bot.name)),
 +          (0, import_react25.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-set-hint" }, t("Add"))
-+        )),
+         )),
+-        (0, import_react23.createElement)("button", { key: "cancel", type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-add", onClick: () => setAdding(false) }, t("Cancel"))
+-      ] : outside.length > 0 ? (0, import_react23.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-add", onClick: () => setAdding(true) }, (0, import_react23.createElement)(PlusIcon), t("Add member")) : null,
+-      (0, import_react23.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-set-row bt-gs-note" }, (0, import_react23.createElement)(
 +        ...outsideRemotes.map((bot) => (0, import_react25.createElement)(
 +          "button",
 +          { key: bot.handle, type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-pick", onClick: () => {
@@ -8798,10 +8828,7 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +          (0, import_react25.createElement)(BotAvatar, { bot: lookBotForRemote({ handle: bot.handle, displayName: bot.name, avatar: bot.avatar, color: bot.color }, roster), size: 22, badge: false, live: false }),
 +          (0, import_react25.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-set-copy" }, (0, import_react25.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-bs-label" }, remoteBotTitle({ displayName: bot.name, ownerName: bot.homeName || bot.owner, handle: bot.handle, isChief: bot.isChief }))),
 +          (0, import_react25.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-set-hint" }, t("Add friend's Bot"))
-         )),
--        (0, import_react23.createElement)("button", { key: "cancel", type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-add", onClick: () => setAdding(false) }, t("Cancel"))
--      ] : outside.length > 0 ? (0, import_react23.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-add", onClick: () => setAdding(true) }, (0, import_react23.createElement)(PlusIcon), t("Add member")) : null,
--      (0, import_react23.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-set-row bt-gs-note" }, (0, import_react23.createElement)(
++        )),
 +        (0, import_react25.createElement)("button", { key: "cancel", type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-add", onClick: () => setAdding(false) }, t("Cancel"))
 +      ] : outside.length + outsidePeople.length + outsideRemotes.length > 0 ? (0, import_react25.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-set-row bt-bs-row bt-gs-add", onClick: () => setAdding(true) }, (0, import_react25.createElement)(PlusIcon), t("Add member")) : null,
 +      (0, import_react25.createElement)("div", { className: "bt-set-row bt-gs-note" }, (0, import_react25.createElement)(
@@ -9758,46 +9785,49 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
 +        } }, t("Choose apps")) : null,
 +        on ? (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", "aria-expanded": bots, onClick: () => setBots((value) => !value) }, bots ? t("Done") : t("Choose Bots")) : null,
 +        on ? (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy, onClick: () => void run(actions.connectorDisconnect(connector.id)) }, t("Disconnect")) : form ? null : (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", onClick: () => setForm(true) }, t("Connect"))
-       )
-     ),
--    !on && form ? (0, import_react25.createElement)(
++      )
++    ),
 +    on ? (0, import_react27.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-connector-uses" }, usageText(roster, connector.id)) : null,
 +    on && bots ? (0, import_react27.createElement)(ConnectorBots, { connector, roster, actions, run, SwitchRow }) : null,
 +    !on && form ? (0, import_react27.createElement)(
-       "div",
-       { className: "bt-connector-form" },
--      (0, import_react25.createElement)("label", { className: "bt-q-field bt-secret-field" }, (0, import_react25.createElement)(MaskedInput, { value: token, onChange: setToken, onEnter: connect, label: t("GitHub token"), autoFocus: true })),
--      (0, import_react25.createElement)(
++      "div",
++      { className: "bt-connector-form" },
 +      (0, import_react27.createElement)("label", { className: "bt-q-field bt-secret-field" }, (0, import_react27.createElement)(MaskedInput, { value: token, onChange: setToken, onEnter: connect, label: gateway ? t("Composio API key") : t("GitHub token"), autoFocus: true })),
 +      gateway ? (0, import_react27.createElement)(AppPicker, { apps, onChange: setApps }) : null,
 +      (0, import_react27.createElement)(
-         "div",
-         { className: "bt-connector-form-row" },
--        (0, import_react25.createElement)("a", { className: "bt-connector-link", href: TOKEN_URL, target: "_blank", rel: "noopener noreferrer" }, t("Create a token on GitHub")),
--        (0, import_react25.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy, onClick: () => {
++        "div",
++        { className: "bt-connector-form-row" },
 +        (0, import_react27.createElement)("a", { className: "bt-connector-link", href: gateway ? COMPOSIO_KEY_URL : TOKEN_URL, target: "_blank", rel: "noopener noreferrer" }, gateway ? t("Get a Composio API key") : t("Create a token on GitHub")),
 +        (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy, onClick: () => {
-           setForm(false);
-           setToken("");
-           setError(null);
-         } }, t("Cancel")),
--        (0, import_react25.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy || token.trim() === "", onClick: connect }, busy ? t("Connecting…") : t("Connect"))
++          setForm(false);
++          setToken("");
++          setError(null);
++        } }, t("Cancel")),
 +        (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy || token.trim() === "", onClick: connect }, busy ? t("Connecting…") : t("Connect"))
-+      )
+       )
+-    ),
+-    !on && form ? (0, import_react25.createElement)(
 +    ) : null,
 +    on && gateway && picking ? (0, import_react27.createElement)(
-+      "div",
-+      { className: "bt-connector-form" },
+       "div",
+       { className: "bt-connector-form" },
+-      (0, import_react25.createElement)("label", { className: "bt-q-field bt-secret-field" }, (0, import_react25.createElement)(MaskedInput, { value: token, onChange: setToken, onEnter: connect, label: t("GitHub token"), autoFocus: true })),
+-      (0, import_react25.createElement)(
 +      (0, import_react27.createElement)(AppPicker, { apps, onChange: setApps }),
 +      (0, import_react27.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-set-hint" }, t("The first time a Bot uses an app, it shows a sign-in link in the chat.")),
 +      (0, import_react27.createElement)(
-+        "div",
-+        { className: "bt-connector-form-row" },
+         "div",
+         { className: "bt-connector-form-row" },
+-        (0, import_react25.createElement)("a", { className: "bt-connector-link", href: TOKEN_URL, target: "_blank", rel: "noopener noreferrer" }, t("Create a token on GitHub")),
+-        (0, import_react25.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy, onClick: () => {
+-          setForm(false);
+-          setToken("");
 +        (0, import_react27.createElement)("span", { className: "bt-connector-link" }),
 +        (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy, onClick: () => {
 +          setPicking(false);
-+          setError(null);
-+        } }, t("Cancel")),
+           setError(null);
+         } }, t("Cancel")),
+-        (0, import_react25.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy || token.trim() === "", onClick: connect }, busy ? t("Connecting…") : t("Connect"))
 +        (0, import_react27.createElement)("button", { type: "button", className: "bt-soft bt-soft-sm", disabled: busy || apps.length === 0, onClick: saveApps }, busy ? t("Connecting…") : t("Save"))
        )
      ) : null,
@@ -10668,6 +10698,14 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
      ))
    );
  }
+@@ -10978,6 +10978,7 @@ var STORAGE = {
+   unread: "ds-bot:unread",
+   reactions: "ds-bot:reactions",
+   seen: "ds-bot:seen",
++  friendLines: "ds-bot:friend-lines",
+   prefs: "ds-bot:prefs",
+   surface: "ds-bot:surface",
+   agentSessions: "ds-bot:agent-sessions",
 @@ -11039,7 +11039,7 @@ function migrateStorage(storage = globalThis.localStorage) {
  }
  
@@ -11816,6 +11854,29 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
    );
  }
  
+@@ -13052,6 +13052,22 @@ function serveBrowserReads({ browsers, post, clientId = globalThis.crypto.random
+   };
+ }
+ 
++// src/client/friend-lines.js
++function friendLineNews(bots, known, isOpen, selfId) {
++  const next = { ...known };
++  const unread = [];
++  for (const bot of bots ?? []) {
++    const at = bot?.friendLineAt;
++    if (bot?.remote || !Number.isFinite(at)) continue;
++    if (selfId && bot.ownerId && bot.ownerId !== selfId) continue;
++    const shown = known?.[bot.id];
++    if (shown === at) continue;
++    next[bot.id] = at;
++    if (known && (shown === void 0 || at > shown) && !isOpen(bot)) unread.push(bot.id);
++  }
++  return { known: next, unread };
++}
++
+ // src/client/surface.js
+ function groupsFor({ mode, plain = false }) {
+   return { shell: mode === "bot", conversation: mode === "bot" && !plain };
 @@ -13105,7 +13105,7 @@ function writeMode(mode, storage = globalThis.localStorage) {
  }
  
@@ -12004,16 +12065,41 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
    migrateStorage();
    const UNREAD_KEY = STORAGE.unread;
    let savedUnread = {};
-@@ -13274,7 +13274,7 @@ function apply(ctx) {
+@@ -13274,7 +13274,13 @@ function apply(ctx) {
    } catch {
      seenAt = {};
    }
 -  const ui2 = createSource({ details: null, view: "details", renaming: false, tab: null, newChat: null, exchange: null, menu: null, voice: null, palette: null, quote: null, settings: null, memory: null, toast: null, signIn: null, renameAgent: null, unread: savedUnread, reactions: savedReactions, visits: {} });
++  let friendLines = null;
++  try {
++    friendLines = JSON.parse(localStorage.getItem(STORAGE.friendLines) ?? "null");
++  } catch {
++    friendLines = null;
++  }
 +  const ui2 = createSource({ details: null, view: "details", renaming: false, tab: null, newChat: null, exchange: null, menu: null, voice: null, palette: null, quote: null, settings: null, remoteBotSettings: null, memory: null, toast: null, signIn: null, renameAgent: null, unread: savedUnread, reactions: savedReactions, visits: {} });
    const surface = createSource({ mode: readMode(), plain: false });
    let agentSessionCache = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
    try {
-@@ -13368,6 +13368,10 @@ function apply(ctx) {
+@@ -13344,6 +13344,18 @@ function apply(ctx) {
+     }
+     return { ...state, unread };
+   });
++  const noteFriendLines = (value) => {
++    const visited = new Set(Object.keys(ui2.getSnapshot().visits ?? {}).map(seenKey));
++    const news = friendLineNews(value.bots, friendLines, (bot) => visited.has(bot.id), value.self?.memberId);
++    if (JSON.stringify(news.known) !== JSON.stringify(friendLines ?? null)) {
++      friendLines = news.known;
++      try {
++        localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.friendLines, JSON.stringify(friendLines));
++      } catch {
++      }
++    }
++    for (const id of news.unread) setUnread(id, true);
++  };
+   const refreshed = /* @__PURE__ */ new Set();
+   let pulls = 0;
+   let applied = 0;
+@@ -13368,10 +13368,15 @@ function apply(ctx) {
      const live2 = {};
      if (value.connectors !== void 0 && JSON.stringify(value.connectors) !== JSON.stringify(current.connectors ?? [])) live2.connectors = value.connectors;
      if (value.capabilityStatuses !== void 0 && JSON.stringify(value.capabilityStatuses) !== JSON.stringify(current.capabilityStatuses ?? {})) live2.capabilityStatuses = value.capabilityStatuses;
@@ -12024,6 +12110,11 @@ diff --git a/client.js b/client.js
      if (Object.keys(live2).length > 0 && current.ready) roster.set({ ...current, ...live2 });
      if (value.unchanged || value.revision === current.revision && value.modelsKey === current.modelsKey) return;
      if (Object.keys(seenAt).length === 0) leaveVisits([...value.bots, ...value.rooms].map((entry) => entry.id));
+     roster.set(indexRoster(value));
++    noteFriendLines(value);
+     try {
+       const ids = (value.agents ?? []).flatMap((agent) => agent.sessions ?? []);
+       localStorage.setItem(STORAGE.agentSessions, JSON.stringify(ids));
 @@ -13501,7 +13501,7 @@ function apply(ctx) {
      };
      render();
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/files/src/client/friend-lines.js b/patches/ds-bot/files/src/client/friend-lines.js
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..f69d9a3df
--- /dev/null
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/files/src/client/friend-lines.js
@@ -0,0 +1,24 @@
+// A friend's line in one of my Bots' own chats (#420): it lands among my own messages, so DSH's
+// "finished while you were away" mark is not enough (that chat may be the one on screen, or the
+// line came while this window was closed). The host stamps the Bot with `friendLineAt`; this
+// window keeps the last stamp it has shown per Bot and marks a Bot unread when a newer one
+// arrives while its chat is not open. Stamps are compared with stamps, never with this
+// browser's clock. A browser with no record yet takes everything already there as shown.
+
+// `known`: the saved record, or null when this browser has none yet. `isOpen(bot)`: its chat is on
+// screen now. Returns the record to save and the Bots to mark unread.
+export function friendLineNews(bots, known, isOpen, selfId) {
+  const next = { ...known }
+  const unread = []
+  for (const bot of bots ?? []) {
+    const at = bot?.friendLineAt
+    if (bot?.remote || !Number.isFinite(at)) continue
+    // Another member's Bot shared in a group is theirs to read.
+    if (selfId && bot.ownerId && bot.ownerId !== selfId) continue
+    const shown = known?.[bot.id]
+    if (shown === at) continue
+    next[bot.id] = at
+    if (known && (shown === undefined || at > shown) && !isOpen(bot)) unread.push(bot.id)
+  }
+  return { known: next, unread }
+}
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/files/test/flybot.test.js b/patches/ds-bot/files/test/flybot.test.js
index 060ca24ef..a6b8320a6 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/files/test/flybot.test.js
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/files/test/flybot.test.js
@@ -268,6 +268,27 @@ test('a remote sender the plugin says typed the line is marked on the message so
   assert.equal('typedBy' in sources[1].remote, false)
 })
 
+test("#420: a friend's line stamps the receiving Bot for its unread mark, and only a sender's first line is first contact", async (t) => {
+  const { fb, agents, call, stop, grantTo } = await start()
+  t.after(stop)
+  await grantTo('a', '@bob.bot')
+  await grantTo('a', '@carol.bot')
+  const before = (await call('state', {})).value
+  assert.equal(before.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'a').friendLineAt, undefined)
+  await fb.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle: '@bob.bot', name: 'Bob (typed via @bob.bot, Bot Social)', typedBy: 'Bob' }, to: 'a', text: 'hi' })
+  const first = (await call('state', {})).value
+  const stamp = first.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'a').friendLineAt
+  assert.ok(Number.isFinite(stamp), 'the Bot carries the stamp')
+  assert.ok(first.revision > before.revision, 'the stamp moves the revision, so an open window reads it')
+  assert.equal(first.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'b').friendLineAt, undefined, 'other Bots are untouched')
+  assert.equal('remoteContacts' in first, false, 'the senders seen stay on the host')
+  await fb.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle: '@bob.bot', name: 'Bob' }, to: 'a', text: 'again' })
+  await fb.bot.send({ from: { kind: 'remote', handle: '@carol.bot', name: 'Carol' }, to: 'a', text: 'me too' })
+  const sources = agents.get('a').calls.map(([, m]) => m.source)
+  assert.deepEqual(sources.map(source => [source.remote.handle, source.remote.firstContact === true]), [['@bob.bot', true], ['@bob.bot', false], ['@carol.bot', true]])
+  assert.ok((await call('state', {})).value.bots.find(bot => bot.id === 'a').friendLineAt >= stamp)
+})
+
 test('#226: chatApprovals.changed moves the team revision so a friend chat badge refreshes', async (t) => {
   const { fb, call, stop } = await start()
   t.after(stop)
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/files/test/friend-lines.test.js b/patches/ds-bot/files/test/friend-lines.test.js
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..b773c8830
--- /dev/null
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/files/test/friend-lines.test.js
@@ -0,0 +1,36 @@
+import assert from 'node:assert/strict'
+import { test } from 'node:test'
+import { friendLineNews } from '../src/client/friend-lines.js'
+
+const closed = () => false
+
+test("#420: a friend's line in a Bot's chat that is not open marks that Bot unread once", () => {
+  const bots = [{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 200 }, { id: 'b' }]
+  const news = friendLineNews(bots, { a: 100 }, closed)
+  assert.deepEqual(news.unread, ['a'])
+  assert.deepEqual(news.known, { a: 200 })
+  // The same stamp again (the next pull) marks nothing: opening the chat cleared the mark.
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews(bots, news.known, closed).unread, [])
+})
+
+test("#420: the first friend's line a Bot ever gets is news too, once this browser keeps a record", () => {
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews([{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 50 }], {}, closed).unread, ['a'])
+})
+
+test('#420: a line that arrives while its chat is on screen was seen live', () => {
+  const news = friendLineNews([{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 300 }], { a: 100 }, bot => bot.id === 'a')
+  assert.deepEqual(news.unread, [])
+  assert.deepEqual(news.known, { a: 300 }, 'recorded, so leaving the chat does not mark it later')
+})
+
+test('#420: a browser with no record yet takes what is there as shown', () => {
+  const news = friendLineNews([{ id: 'a', friendLineAt: 300 }, { id: 'b' }], null, closed)
+  assert.deepEqual(news.unread, [])
+  assert.deepEqual(news.known, { a: 300 })
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews([{ id: 'b' }], null, closed).known, {}, 'an empty record still starts tracking')
+})
+
+test("#420: a friend's Bot chat and another member's shared Bot are not marked here", () => {
+  const bots = [{ id: 'r', remote: { handle: '@x.home' }, friendLineAt: 9 }, { id: 'theirs', ownerId: 'm2', friendLineAt: 9 }, { id: 'mine', ownerId: 'm1', friendLineAt: 9 }]
+  assert.deepEqual(friendLineNews(bots, {}, closed, 'm1').unread, ['mine'])
+})
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/files/test/inbound-ui.test.js b/patches/ds-bot/files/test/inbound-ui.test.js
index a2237e0c0..76316afab 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/files/test/inbound-ui.test.js
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/files/test/inbound-ui.test.js
@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@ import { build } from 'esbuild'
 // The inbound friend conversation's display: trace lines, the thinking row, the remote speaker.
 const { outputFiles } = await build({
   stdin: {
-    contents: "export { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions } from './src/client/text.js'\nexport { remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage } from './src/client/cells.js'\nexport { lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed } from './src/client/characters.js'\nexport { roomAvatarPeople } from './src/client/mark.js'",
+    contents: "export { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions } from './src/client/text.js'\nexport { remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage, FirstContact } from './src/client/cells.js'\nexport { lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed } from './src/client/characters.js'\nexport { roomAvatarPeople } from './src/client/mark.js'",
     resolveDir: fileURLToPath(new URL('..', import.meta.url)),
   },
   bundle: true, format: 'cjs', platform: 'browser', write: false, logLevel: 'silent',
@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ runInNewContext(outputFiles[0].text, {
     throw new Error(`Unexpected platform module ${name}`)
   },
 })
-const { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions, remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage, lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed, roomAvatarPeople } = module.exports
+const { stripTrace, previewOf, nameMentions, remoteSpeaker, RemoteMessage, FirstContact, lookOf, lookBotForRemote, remoteSeed, roomAvatarPeople } = module.exports
 
 test('a reply opening with a delegation trace shows without it', () => {
   assert.equal(stripTrace('Chief → 助手\n\nHi Chief! Good to hear from you.'), 'Hi Chief! Good to hear from you.')
@@ -201,3 +201,14 @@ test('#275: a typed line from a friend has one short header: the person, then "v
   assert.ok(via)
   assert.doesNotMatch(header(known), /typed via|Bot Social|'s Bot/)
 })
+
+test("#420: a sender's first line in a Bot's own chat gets one quiet line naming who talks to which Bot", () => {
+  const roster = { bots: [], remoteBots: [], byId: { s: { id: 'a', name: 'Chief' } } }
+  const text = node => flat(node).flatMap(n => (Array.isArray(n.props?.children) ? n.props.children : [])).filter(c => typeof c === 'string').join('')
+  const typed = FirstContact({ roster, sessionId: 's', source: { remote: { handle: '@chief.selfb1238.home', typedBy: 'SelfB1238', firstContact: true }, senderName: 'SelfB1238 (typed via @chief.selfb1238.home, Bot Social)' } })
+  assert.equal(typed.props.className, 'bt-event')
+  assert.equal(text(typed), 'SelfB1238 is talking to Chief through Bot Social')
+  const known = { ...roster, remoteBots: [{ handle: '@helper.selfb1238.home', name: 'Helper', owner: 'SelfB1238' }] }
+  const bot = FirstContact({ roster: known, sessionId: 's', source: { remote: { handle: '@helper.selfb1238.home', firstContact: true }, senderName: 'Helper' } })
+  assert.equal(text(bot), 'Helper (SelfB1238) is talking to Chief through Bot Social')
+})
diff --git a/patches/ds-bot/topics.json b/patches/ds-bot/topics.json
index 2f1970534..3fb2ca813 100644
--- a/patches/ds-bot/topics.json
+++ b/patches/ds-bot/topics.json
@@ -60,7 +60,8 @@
     "src/client/create-bot.js",
     "test/turn-tail.test.js",
     "src/client/bot-draft.js",
-    "test/create-bot.test.js"
+    "test/create-bot.test.js",
+    "src/client/storage.js"
   ],
   "0005-social-seams": [
     "src/host/channel.js",
diff --git a/plugins/social/src/social.js b/plugins/social/src/social.js
index 0db6e36bf..b466d91d7 100644
--- a/plugins/social/src/social.js
+++ b/plugins/social/src/social.js
@@ -1743,14 +1743,29 @@ export function createSocial(service, config = {}, { client: given, api: givenAp
   }
   const homeArgs = () => (home ? { bot_id: home.id } : config.botId ? { bot_id: config.botId } : {})
   const peerView = item => ({ relationshipId: item.relationship_id, status: item.status, handle: item.peer?.handle ? norm(item.peer.handle) : undefined, name: cleanText(item.peer?.display_name), owner: cleanText(item.peer?.owner_display_name), message: item.message ?? null, requestedAt: item.requested_at, expiresAt: item.expires_at })
+  // A friendship may hang on the home or on one member (a per-Bot invite, #420), so the home and every
+  // member identity are asked, as setAutoAccept does; one relationship is listed once. A member that
+  // cannot be read costs only its own rows; the home's answer still decides whether this fails.
   async function friendsOverview() {
     const overview = await client.callTool('list_friends', homeArgs())
-    return {
-      home: home ? home.handle : overview?.bot?.handle,
-      friends: (overview?.friends ?? []).map(peerView),
-      incoming: (overview?.pending_incoming ?? []).map(peerView),
-      outgoing: (overview?.pending_outgoing ?? []).map(peerView),
+    const members = home ? flybot.bot.list().map(bot => ({ bot, member: activeMember(bot.id) })).filter(entry => entry.member && entry.member.bot_id !== home.id) : []
+    const answers = [{ overview }, ...await Promise.all(members.map(async ({ bot, member }) => ({
+      bot,
+      overview: await client.callTool('list_friends', { bot_id: member.bot_id }).catch((error) => { warn(`friends of ${bot.name} not read`, error); return undefined }),
+    })))]
+    const listed = { friends: [], incoming: [], outgoing: [] }
+    const done = new Set()
+    for (const { bot, overview: answer } of answers) {
+      for (const [key, items] of [['friends', answer?.friends], ['incoming', answer?.pending_incoming], ['outgoing', answer?.pending_outgoing]]) {
+        for (const item of items ?? []) {
+          const id = item?.relationship_id
+          if (id !== undefined && done.has(id)) continue
+          if (id !== undefined) done.add(id)
+          listed[key].push({ ...peerView(item), ...(bot ? { botId: bot.id, botName: bot.name } : {}) })
+        }
+      }
     }
+    return { home: home ? home.handle : overview?.bot?.handle, ...listed }
   }
   disposers.push(flybot.api.handle('social/overview', async () => friendsOverview(), { read: true }))
   // Invites are per Bot: an invite names one local Bot (its member identity), and a friend who
diff --git a/plugins/social/test/social.test.js b/plugins/social/test/social.test.js
index b42ac5ae7..f187b2f37 100644
--- a/plugins/social/test/social.test.js
+++ b/plugins/social/test/social.test.js
@@ -436,6 +436,38 @@ test('files: incoming attachments are chips for the user and untrusted, hash-che
   await assert.rejects(tool('get_friend_file', { id: 'att_1' }, 'b'), /integrity check/)
 })
 
+test('#420: social/overview lists per-Bot friendships and requests, asking the home and every member once per relationship', async (t) => {
+  const { ctx, call, stop } = await team()
+  t.after(stop)
+  const server = mockServer()
+  const social = createSocial(ctx.flybot, { autoAccept: false, inboxPollMs: 0 }, { client: createMcpClient({ server: 'https://s', token: 'owner-token', fetch: server.fetch }), home: { id: 'h1', handle: '@selfa.home' } })
+  t.after(() => social.dispose())
+  // A per-Bot invite registers Chief's member identity; the friendship hangs on it, not on the home.
+  assert.equal((await call('flybot/social/create-invite', { botId: 'a' })).ok, true)
+  const chief = server.calls.find(c => c.name === 'add_home_member' && c.args.name === 'chief')
+  assert.ok(chief)
+  server.tools.list_friends = a => (a?.bot_id === 'h1'
+    ? { bot: { handle: '@selfa.home' }, friends: [{ relationship_id: 'r-home', status: 'active', peer: { handle: '@bob.home', display_name: 'Bob' } }], pending_incoming: [], pending_outgoing: [] }
+    : { friends: [
+      { relationship_id: 'r-home', status: 'active', peer: { handle: '@bob.home', display_name: 'Bob' } },
+      { relationship_id: 'r-bot', status: 'active', peer: { handle: '@chief.selfb.home', display_name: 'Chief', owner_display_name: 'SelfB' } },
+    ], pending_incoming: [{ relationship_id: 'r-req', status: 'pending_target', peer: { handle: '@helper.carol.home', display_name: 'Helper' } }], pending_outgoing: [] })
+  server.calls.length = 0
+  const overview = (await call('flybot/social/overview', {})).value
+  assert.equal(overview.home, '@selfa.home')
+  assert.deepEqual(overview.friends.map(f => [f.relationshipId, f.handle, f.botName ?? null]), [['r-home', '@bob.home', null], ['r-bot', '@chief.selfb.home', 'Chief']])
+  assert.deepEqual(overview.incoming.map(f => [f.relationshipId, f.handle, f.botId]), [['r-req', '@helper.carol.home', 'a']])
+  const asked = server.calls.filter(c => c.name === 'list_friends').map(c => c.args.bot_id)
+  assert.equal(asked.length, 2, 'the home and the one member identity, once each')
+  assert.ok(asked.includes('h1') && asked.some(id => /^m\d+$/.test(id)))
+  // A member that cannot be read costs only its own rows.
+  server.tools.list_friends = a => {
+    if (a?.bot_id !== 'h1') throw new Error('member read failed')
+    return { bot: { handle: '@selfa.home' }, friends: [{ relationship_id: 'r-home', status: 'active', peer: { handle: '@bob.home', display_name: 'Bob' } }] }
+  }
+  assert.deepEqual((await call('flybot/social/overview', {})).value.friends.map(f => f.relationshipId), ['r-home'])
+})
+
 test('add friend from the UI: invite link, join by link, and answer requests (owner click = confirmation)', async (t) => {
   const { ctx, call, stop } = await team()
   t.after(stop)